"Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple”
It is a great blessing to meet and marry a partner we love and meet our ideal criteria. Everything is a journey of destiny where we never know when, where and how we can meet our partner. We. There must be a story of meeting and also a story of struggle. When we really love, there will be a test, if he is the best from God, then it will not be exchanged.
Is your current partner your choice and ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle. |
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The fate of life no one knows. I've known my husband for only a few weeks without face to face. The first time we met in person, it was in front of my parents. We weren't dating or he told me "I love you, will you marry me?" I didn't get those sweet words at all. But I liked him the first time I saw him. 🤗 So, I can say that this is my choice which my parents approve.
We went through a very fast process, meeting parents and then getting married after knowing 3 months. Getting a relationship is very easy, but maintaining and shaping it to be beautiful is very difficult, even possessions and objects are not a problem.
The heart is a feeling of calm, comfort, obedience, tenacity, and loving struggle, those are all things that I get from my husband now. I'm not someone who easily likes someone or my parents are strict people, but he managed to make me love him in that very simple way.
What are the obstacles you faced when you wanted to get married, or why haven't you gotten married yet? |
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When I'm getting married, people who have broken up for a long time come back, hoping that the relationship I'm currently in never happens. But, everything was too late. When someone gives you their heart and loves you sincerely, never let them down or you will end up regretting it.
A relationship will be difficult without trust and honesty. I started my relationship by not hiding anything including my past, then he decided. Finally, I am grateful that we have been married for 7 years and have two beautiful and handsome children.
So when starting a relationship it's not difficult, but the times when you're in a relationship, therein lies the real "trial", are you strong or just passing by.
What are the criteria for your ideal partner? |
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Love has no specific criteria. I'm sure that everyone wants their partner to be a person who is responsible and also disciplined and authoritative also funny. Wealth can be sought, but loyalty and solid love is very difficult to form.🥰
I want my current partner to be simple and loving. I can't ask for more when I feel like I can't give more. A happy life and a partner who accepts strengths and weaknesses will make life's journey more colorful and warmer.
Do you prioritize beauty or comfort in communication? Why? |
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I am a wife and I have priority to maintain my communication. I want to have good communication, but behind all that I want what I say doesn't hurt him, so that when he communicates, he feels comfortable and comfort is the main thing in maintaining a relationship. Good communication will bring the relationship to a better path, deliberation, and produce an agreement whose causes and consequences will be shared.
What is your measure of happiness when you get married? |
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Marrying a partner who is in accordance with our wishes and provides comfort will provide incomparable happiness and become a benchmark for happiness itself. I enjoy my timea being a mother and a wife Although sometimes there are times when it is difficult, and the couple itself is the solution to these difficult times.
What do you think about early marriage or older marriage? |
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"Matching" Is the destiny of life. A person has been determined by his soul mate even before he was born. Therefore there is nothing wrong with early marriage or old marriage. Provided they are committed to looking after each other, caring for children, loving, loyal to each other, looking after each other, and complementing each other. Marriage is not just an agreement on paper, but is closely related to our agreement with the Creator. So, marriage is worship and marriage is a sacred bond.
Until here, my participation in the Steemit Engagement Challenge S9W61 at STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE Community.
I would like to invite my friends to participate in this Steemit Engagement Challenge, @f2i5 @dulcem05 @nahela @edgargonzalez @elrazi @nyakjaja .
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From your friend
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Saya sangat tersentuh dengan komentar pak @irawandedy dalam kolom verifikasinya.
Karena itu juga yang terjadi dengan hubungan saya.
Kalian memiliki pasangan yang benar-benar ideal. Nye khen ureung Aceh "Lage pineung teuplah dua". Semua abadi hingga akhir hayat.
Terimakasih sudah mengundang saya.
Alhamdulillah ... Terimakasih atas komentar baiknya brother, 😇
Saya berharap pasangan saya juga bisa menjadi pasangan saya di akhirat... Semoga anda juga sukses brother👍😇
I so much enjoyed reading your entry, I enjoyed this part most
This is very true, on e you identify your weaknesses you both work on it, avoid taking advantage of the other person weakness.
Thank you for your entry it's educative
Wishing you success ❤️❤️
You are welcome my dear friend, anda thank you for your nice comment....
I still have to learn more and strengthen myself so that I am not easily influenced by things that are detrimental to me and my partner, we always try our best, remembering how early he and we loved each other...
continued success and I hope your family is healthy too.... 🥰🤗
Yes we are fine thank you so much
Thank you, friend!
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What beautiful words!
I believe that people that are "compatible " with each other understand each other so much better. This results into respect for each other, making one feel secure while you have fun in your marriage.
I always said that you and hubby looks like the perfect couple for me.
Good luck with the contest!
Thanks for the lovely comment mod'm...
It's hard to understand sometimes, there's a lot of drama behind the scenes, but remembering this isn't just love between two people and leaving easily when you have "comfort and affection"...
I learn a lot from those who are more mature...
A warm greeting and a hug... 🤗🤗
I can guarantee you that when it comes to marriage you will keep on learning until the very end.
We just wiser but not clever enough.
Hugs and greetings right back at you. 🍦
Sepasang suami - istri yang sangat harmonis.
Semoga sukses kakak @liasteem
Terima kasih atas doa terbaiknya... 😇 sukses juha untuk brother.. 👍
keinginan untuk mengembangkan hubungan jangka panjang, dan kemampuan untuk mengatasi perbedaan dan konflik dengan baik
Terimakasih atas komentar nya sayang, saya harap segera melihat entry anda.... 🤗
Terima kasih
Semoga menyukai apa yg saya tulis
Pasangan yang ideal, saya doakan bahagia dunia akhirat....
Aamiin ya Allah...
Terimakasih atas doa terbaiknya.. 😇
muy cierto amiga el matrimonio no tiene edad siempre cuando las personas se comprendan y se comprometan de corazón y amor a cuidarse mutuamente, y una buena comunicación me gusto mucho leer tu entrada amiga
Thank you very much for your nice comment, I really appreciate it... 🤗😘