Dear friends , As i am currently in a relationship with my cousin, who is my university classmate . She is not only my ideal partner but also a girl who is beautiful & has a kind heart. Our relationship is built on a strong foundation of love, trust, & mutual respect. I am grateful for her presence in my life, & she has been a great source of support for me in both good times and bad.
Being in a relationship with someone you love and admire makes life a lot more meaningful and fulfilling, and I feel incredibly lucky to have her by my side.
My relationship with my cousin has been good from , but there are underlying tensions in the family as well her's that put pressure on both of us, especially due to the gender norms that are still prevalent in our culture. Unfortunately, my family strictly forbids me from pursuing my career as a student, which adds to the stress & strain. While I understand their concerns & their desire to protect me, it can be difficult to balance their expectations with my own aspirations.
Overall, it's a complex situation that requires delicate handling, patience, and understanding from all parties involved.
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My ideal ife partner is someone whose main criteria is a pretty kind heart, & who appreciates my own compassionate nature. However, her's family may have different expectations, such as wanting her to marry someone with a high-paying govt job as usual . It remains to be seen what the future holds for both us & our relationship, but I believe that as long as we communicate openly & honestly with each other and our families, we can find a way to bridge any gaps & create a happy & fulfilling life together.
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Personally, I haven't given much thought to getting married at an early stages of age. In my opinion, the ideal time for marriage would be after at least the age of 28, as I believe that this is the best age to settle down and start a family and & god life . However, our society has a different concept of marriage and different opinions , where it's believed that boys should get married as soon possible as they turn 20.
This cultural expectation can create pressure & anxiety, especially for those who don't feel ready or don't share the same beliefs. It's important to remamber that everyone has their own timeline for life's milestones, and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to mariage or any other major life decision.
Goodbye, friends. It's been a pleasure getting to know you all and participating in this community. I will miss interacting with all of you, but it's time for me to move on. Take care and I hope to see you all again very soon.
Your gorgeous friend Hamad khan
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Siempre en una relación se presentan obstáculos, para que está sea feliz, pero lo importante es no darse por vencido, insistir hasta lograrlo, espero termines tus estudios y te logres formar tu matrimonio.
When we want to get married, the blessing of our parents becomes the basis for us to build a household. Because if there is no parental blessing, then there will be a scourge.
Nice one friend, indeed being in a relationship with someone you love and admire makes life a lot more meaningful and fulfilling, and I wish best of love ......
Asalam Alikum brother,
Umeed ha ap khariyat sy hngy. Aik relationship me love, support, aur understanding hi sb sy important hoti ha. In k bager ap ka relationship kbi b toot skta ha.
Acha lga parh k ap aur ap ki czn jo classmate ha ap dono me strong understanding, respect, aur love ha. Me dua krta hn ap dono hamesa st khush raho aur ap dono ki shadi bht jald ho jay Ameen Suma Ameen.
Hr insan ki apni soch hoti ha lkn mera mind ha 25 age best hoti... reason ye ha k jitna jaldi ap shadi kro gy ap dono st grow kr sko gy... Mene zyada young couple ko khush dekha ha bajae old couples k... reason yehe ha tb tk ap mature itny ho chuky hoty k ap wo bachpana enjoy ni kr skty.
St grow krny sy aur career build krny sy apko aik to support milti, ap mentally relaxed rehty, parents ki duaen rehten, aur ap k bachy b ap k st zyada comfortable hoty. Ye mera personal view ha ap is sy disagree kr skty ho.
Me dua krta hn k ap dono ki families jald hi man jaen aur shadi kr den. Yahan just aik advice doun ga aik dosry ko support maximum krna tb ap dono k lye gap nikal hi ay ga families me InShaaAllah 💕 💕 💕 💕
I am glad that you are living a happy married life with your cousin.
thank you for sharing
You have written very well. The anxiety and pressure the society put on people makes them to go into the wrong marriage which has a possibility to come with regrets later in the future. We should always learn to overlook this pressure and go into marriage when we are ready for it.
Wish you success.