How do you deal with people who always see fault in whatever you do?
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I have just been wondering why we still have lots of people around who still dont know how to appreciate things or correct lovingly, but only just to find fault in others and criticise.
Have you ever been a victim to that??. I mean you been criticised and not appreciated for the good job well done, even when it's obvious that the work is good and commendable.
How do you deal with it, most especially when it's coming from people closer to you or around you?
I have pondered over this phenomenon severally , but come to the conclusion that the below reasons accounts for why your "Good" may not be appreciated .
1)Perspectives differ from one person to another .
This is why "GOOD" is very subjective ; what is deemed good to me might be "EVIL " to another especially if it opposes his / her personal pursuit !
2)Human Natural Ego Naturally humans are innately in competition with one another , like the Lions in their domain. We detest anything "shining " above us.
Your good places you in the limelight which they must resist naturally. It is an instinct which can't be anulled.
Civilization has only succeeded in camouflaging it .
Whenever , you are being opposed unnecessarily , note these and walk away with your head high; knowing that you have not offended anybody , rather you are succeeding gracefully in your endeavors.