Contest#2||should mother's be the only one with the sole responsibility to take care of the children? by@terdoo

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Hi fellow steemians this great community @steemfamily. I am delighted to participate in this beautiful contest organized by @peachyladiva

Introduction

Family is a the smallest unit of the larger society or in a nutshell a family is a group of people living together who are closely related by blood.

Who is a father?

A father is a breadwinner of the family and a role model to his children a father is the most educated and matured people in the family,he is the head of the family.

Who is a mother?

A mother is an organizer,a home manager and a home maker she controls the affairs of the home with or without the husband's presence

The are many advantages when the responsibility of rising the children are shared equally between the man and woman,at times the man might be the one who relate well with the children and they understands him more if he contribute to the up bringing of the children it's makes them more comfortable unlike when it is only shifted to the woman at times she might tends to lose control of the children because of stress and other issues that might follow there after women only can not take care of the children because proper parenting cannot be done by just an individual it has to be done by the both parents.women as we all know are termed weaker sex they are too fragile to handle most issues unlike the men.i tend to oppose the saying that women should be the only ones taking care of the children

women only cannot manage the home and also take the sole responsibility of taking care of the children

Let's take for instance children who are being brought up by a single mother or by the woman alone tends to lack fatherly love and believe me when I say no matter how a woman tries in the up bringing of the children there are always lapses.

God knows how he joined two persons together in marriage two persons of the same temperament can never make a beautiful family so it is the responsibility of the both parents to come together with understanding and rise the children to become better leaders of tomorrow.

Speaking from experience I as a person was single handedly brought up by my beloved father although it's hasn't been easy i most say he makes sure he gives me the whole world but that is not still enough because I need the love and affection of a mother at times there are things that as a child if you can't share with your mom then you should be able to share with your dad especially when gender is involved.

As a male child who has reached a certain stage in life will be shy of discussing vital issues with the Mom and might perfer the father same is applicable to the female child as well

I stand to oppose the statement that women alone should be given the responsibility of taking care of the children because a man and a woman when joined together as husband and wife and the two becomes one so that means that they should take care of the children equally

Conclusion

In conclusion both parents should always come together with understandings in bringing up the children because there is an adage that says when two elephants fight the grass will be the one suffering so therefore my beloved parents and parents to be let's learn how to join heads together in rising our children let's not allow our negligence deviate us from our duties and responsibilities.

I hereby invite @charis20, @pato84, @kasham02 to come and participate in this contest

Special Mention
@rabibulhasan
@greatketty
@peachyladiva
@liutik2
@strawberrry
@uzma4882
@humaidi

Best regards
@terdoo