Thirdly, when I execute projects or plans or buy new things into the house without telling her though with the intention to surprise her. She is not always happy and comfortable with that and complains that I need to carry her along always in anything I do in the family.

She is very correct. In anything you wish to do in house, even outside your home, you are to carry her along. As a married man, is no longer i but we.

Thank God for the love both of you show after the dispute. Wish you more love in your home bro.