Is there absolute friendship between genders?

in Boylikegirl Club7 months ago (edited)

We can be friends, he said
I answered: Yes
It worked out well
We were buddies till...
The sky fell

d4eabeaa-26bc-4848-a1da-384abc73ba44.jpg

Will you be my friend?
Okay

First contact
Only one word and the friendship was settled
Both needed a buddy
While holding Teddy
A strange environment
Away from home
Mom had left each of them behind
Kindergarten

Is it possible to remain friends for life? To them, it is since who shares your fears, knows about your dreams and wishes, mean mom and absent dad, about you still wedding the bed, who laughs and cries with you, pets your shoulder is a true friend, a friend for life. Friendships like these shouldn't be broken by adults.

79c05444-97f4-4a1a-983c-bb9a6d37ea39.jpg

Happy and a bit scared
I am glad you are here.
Me too
It's scary, the goodbye, mixed feelings.
Good and some bad memories
You and me, let's stay together
I'll marry you if I'm old enough
Both giggled

Marriage it's just a word, there's no adult meaning behind it. It's free of responsibilities and without parental involvement. If children talk about marriage race, gender, and age doesn't play a role all they say is: _I like you, you make me feel good, let's stay together._

482240b7-bf14-4e46-ab6e-52333b0f3931.jpg

Do you remember this?
Our staycation, we looked so young!
It was dumb staying home, everyone went abroad.
Not me
How skinny we looked
We ate a lot of ice-cream.
Yes, you did!

Meeting up with a childhood friend, separate ways for a thousand and one reasons. The bond is still there since childhood relationships are stronger than any other relationship. It's the period of life where we act instinctively, respond automatically, learn to trust, discover our boundaries and let not the reason of society influence our friendship yet.

4ba8e6a9-70ad-4672-bfe9-94e6a408b243.jpg

Do I know you, he asked
She sat down next to him on the bench
Is it occupied?
He shook his head
I don't see your name on it.
Both laughed.
A new friendship started.

Is there such a thing as friendship between gender? Can we be picky at all if it comes to friendship, who to put trust in, laugh and cry with? Friendship is about souls connecting which is already hard enough. Gender does not play a role when it comes to friendship since it is a completely different level than romantic or sex-related relationships which take place between the same gender as well. Best (childhood) friends rarely see each other as marriage material if that would have been the case they had married long ago.

29c267d7-2352-47e9-9357-91e099150819.jpg

How good it is to have you near
Still friends after all those years
We started together and went separate ways
Brother and sister, besties till the end

There's no need to knock on my door
It's always open for a friend
You are welcome
Know you'll always feel home to me

A bloodline is no guarantee for friendship and friendships can be stronger than any bloodline because friends are the people we choose to be close with and like to have around. A true friend accepts and respects you the way you are, says the truth and accepts you flaws included.

6efd33c2-bc53-4781-bdc7-a40f1a388a4f.jpg

So much better
No pressure
We both know who we are
Different souls
United
Brighten each other's lives
We share
Love, laugh, cry and care
Grow together and enjoy life
Society doesn't matter

PhotoGrid_1613071815865.png

See [here](https://steemit.com/hive-150487/@boylikegirl.club/ufjnt7d9puf) if you like to join the contest.


Header/Photogrid: Canva 
Pictures: are mine or AI-generated
5-4-2024
I am a mobile phone user only


I upvote comments and (good) entertaining stories. @hive-169911 is my hive (community). I will grow its SP to upvote stories only. Please, do NOT post in it!
If you wrote something good you can tag me, original (no AI-written) stories/tales only. You do not need to join a club to be read and upvoted and you can post wherever you like. I suggest the freewriters or @hive-107855 the Dream Steem. Use the tag # story
Happy Writing @wakeupkitty

#steemexclusive #life #kittywu #krsuccess #thoughtoftheday #club100 #test

Sort:  

First I want to ask "Do you want to be my friend?"

In general, I see that friendship is not limited to gender, we decide with whom and whatever ethnicity, because friendship is comfort, An emotional relationship built on sincerity without interests.

In fact, I see that friendship only through words will be destroyed instantly, will not survive because of interests that are not accommodated.

I have a little friend who I have lost contact with until now, but I only remember him in prayer and looking at our childhood pictures.

I'm not even sure if we passed each other we would know each other. We were separated for almost 33 years because of our parents' migration.

I don't know you, we never talked much but my first response and answer is yes.

With you I see that friendships are destroyed by words and too frequently by outsiders (same for each relationship). It breaks the 'thrust' but friendships can survive and are on different levels. No friendship is the same and there's no need to be 24/7 together.
I just met a friend which I saw one year ago, before that it took 3 or 4 years because of the lockdown. As soon we meet the click is there and we chat lile before (14 years ago). It's the same with another friend. We never (video)call, exchange photos but know where to find each other.

A Dutch expression: Zoals de waard is vertrouwt hij zijn gasten.
(the trust a landlord puts in his guests is measured by his own character/attitude).

Can be you will not recognize your old friend but it's not said. The way someone laughs, walks, can ring a bell and he might remember you.
You could see if you can find him. Plenty of people do.

Thanks for stopping by.
Do you want to be my friend?

❤️🍀

hehehe... Nice to read your reply. I am even one of the most unique humans who likes friendship the most, even strangely I like something that I think is unusual.

I like having friends with different language and cultural backgrounds, for example European, I want to learn many things from them, even though the possibility of meeting them is very small, but I see that it is not impossible.

It's nice to know you even though I don't know your physical characteristics. 😊😊

I'll always reply even if it's late (at times even I have a life).
Great you are unique since so am I 😁 besides I am the best and most loyal friend there is. Lucky you.

What kind of unusual things you like?
Are you creative or?

I guess speaking Dutch and English isn't different to you.
By the way my mother is Dutch and my father was born in "Indonesia" my grandfather was in the army. After they survived the Japanese camps they went to the Netherlands. The family is mixed. Suriname, China, French and who knows what more but no one really cares.

I love cheese but am not too fond of potatoes so Dutch? I don't think so but if it comes to it no one is.

Today is May 5th, liberation Day but nothing to celebrate. I was in a plane one that left too late and my son became sick so I sat like a pathetic person on an airport. Good there was internet and power.
I already had visions of me being 85+ dumped on a foreign airport by my kids 🥴. (I once saw how the elderly in Romania were left behind on the highway with a small bottle of water in the hot sun to sell some shitty items (no one needs) to those crosding the border. I better dump my children before they dump me or I stay in bed for the rest of my life.

My physical characteristics? I hope you are not asking for some sizes. 🤣

If it comes to European we have totally nothing with each other in common except for stolen elections, throw away votes, corrupt governments, the fact we are scolded if we say our nationality and the war. The army senfs invitations. My friend's daughter already received one. Let's see if they recruit my daughter too (no way my children are going to fight somrone else's war).

I need to clean the small fish tank, just finished my Jasmin tea. It's 1 a.m. Let's see if I can be in bed within one hour.

A great day to you my friend.👋🍀❤️

TEAM 5

Congratulations! Your comment has been upvoted through steemcurator08.

Curated by : @radjasalman

Hello Kitty, I really like how you've explored friendship over the course of a lifetime. I believe this is the right time to tell you that you have become a friend to me.

I am? When exactly did that happen? Now I think of it you never asked me. But hey, I can ask you: @ibesso be my my friend okay, I will help to carry your rope, that is if I am around.

It must be my lucky day. After the plane left too late, I had nothing to drink, I ended up like a dumped mom on an airport and waited and waited. Next I had to drive and clean up while my son is snoring. It's 1 a.m. by now but hey I scored two friends (and am dumped by the us inmate porn writer for sending my opinion). What more does a girl want. 🥳

🍀❤️👋

Hello Kitty, I'm glad to hear that you've finally reached your son, despite some setbacks 😅. Now, enjoy the moment. That annoying issue with the letter, noted for my misunderstanding, has been left unresolved for too long. It's clear that I don't tolerate certain behaviors. I've activated 2 bots, we'll see what happens. Let me know if you agree, otherwise, I'll deactivate them. Goodbye and have a nice day!

Which one you activated?
It's not up to me, so far not much result you? I have to be careful where I post, my phone has issues and gets frozen. Do not join the communities steemitblog says to. The boylikesgirl is announced by the other contest overview perhaps therr are more?
I guess these are the korean or chinese communities.

I will write the 3rd episode of The Waterfall today and I hope to write the 3rd episode of the bookstore tomorrow (everyone gone?).

You know notifications -/mentioning/tagging people does not work well.

It's fine with the letter and Julia. His mom he has a daily great contact with did of course not read it and their are plenty of men in the US and the rest of the world who love to read it. It will be on the bookshelves and he'll use a differrnt name (it's always great if you are proud on what you wrote and don't need to hide).

Enjoy yourself. I had a short night (cleaned the houde) and mowed (the weather is fine), the birds are loud, now I will fry some chicken and wash the strawberries.

A great evening to you.
Bye dear friend ❤️🍀

I managed to activate upex by delegating the minimum of 300 SP, which is the maximum I can afford without dropping below 500 (I only have 800 SP), and they guarantee me 0.3 per post per day; the more you delegate, the more they give.

Then, upvotefund to participate in the boylikegirl community as requested, I've delegated to two users, you and another linked to boylikegirl, they also give some UVF but I don't know what those are.

My results are terrible but you're here so it's okay.

I'll stay away from steemitblog.

I've noticed a different interface for Chinese users, I understand less and less. 🤷🏽

I continue to read you even though I can't comment because I'm busy at work. 😅

That letter really distressed me but now that we've cleared things up I feel more at ease.

I'm happy, I think you feel it too.

🍓I like them with lemon.

Good night dear friend ❤️🌻

Loading...

Amistad absolutas y verdaderas??

Una rareza. Y a la vez lo más valioso que se pueda tener.

Un tema delicado para mí.

Gracias por la invitación. @Wakeupkitty.pal

Es un tema delicado y si me preguntas es para todos, a menos que llames amigo al mundo entero. Yo no mi definición de amigo es más alta.

Gracias por pasarte y tomarte el tiempo de comentar.

Un gran comienzo de semana. Bendiciones para ti.

🍀❤️

Amén amén amén

Thank you, friend!
I'm @steem.history, who is steem witness.
Thank you for witnessvoting for me.
image.png
please click it!
image.png
(Go to https://steemit.com/~witnesses and type fbslo at the bottom of the page)

The weight is reduced because of the lack of Voting Power. If you vote for me as a witness, you can get my little vote.

It's good to make friends. But on what angle are you picking your inspiration from @wakeupkitty.pal because I try to assimilate, the energy reserve for expenditure is massive

Wat precies bedoel jij met inspiratie? De inspiratie om te schrijven?

Het idee om over vriendschap te schrijven?

Sorrie, maar ik begrijp jouw vraag niet.

Je n'ai pas savoir ça

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.22
TRX 0.20
JST 0.034
BTC 98923.04
ETH 3381.66
USDT 1.00
SBD 3.09