I completely understand your perspective and decision. It is right to pursue your own ideas and not be swayed by common stereotypes. I know many people who do things and make important decisions just because they feel society imposes them, and I assure you they live unhappily. So, I comprehend and respect your position of not following these “unwritten rules.” It is crucial to find your own happiness by doing what you truly want, rather than conforming to others’ expectations.👋