How to Change Introverted Personality?
Hello friends welcome once again to my blog.
This is a reserved, shy or quiet person who prefers to stay alone. They enjoy doing their tasks alone and have a very small circle of friends.
Some people become introverted as a result of fear of coming out of their comfort zone, lack of confidence or fear of being judged.
The introverted person prefers to avoid social events and they don't do this because they have negative energy on people but they skip social events because they feel comfortable and energized with a small circle of one or two or doing things on their own.
Being an introvert is one's nature which is unchangeable. Can't just switch from being you, we are all created with our unique personalities but if you are frustrated being an introvert, with age and time we can discover our other personalities and merge them with our basic nature.
Changing an introverted personality is a matter of choice if he or she wants or is ready to change. Being an introvert is not bad it's just a way of life or personality with the priceless gift of being reserved.
As I said earlier if you are frustrated being an introvert this is when you look for things you can do to discover other personalities in you. Which are:
Appreciate being an introvert first. Your special way of life of being a deep thinker, reserved and not loud. Understand that it is okay to feel uncomfortable in social events and that you can improve as you gradually engage in going out once in a while. Start with small meaningful social talks with people.
When you meet with people take time to reflect on things you need to improve on. Engage with people around you and online to build your confidence before moving into the bigger crowd. Listen more before involving in a conversation, this will help you ease of pressure before you speak.
Gradually interact as you feel comfortable. Join small clubs, classes, groups etc that interest you, this helps you to meet people and socialize.
All these processes happen gradually and remember it's all about finding a balance that's good for you and not changing completely who you are.
This is my entry. I invite @Chima09, @eveetim and @rossnenye.
introvert personality are lovely people to be with when you spend time with them. One should not carry that mindset of to change an introverts because change can only come from the inner mind which is God alone that can do that.
When one understand and learn the cause of why one chose to be an introvert that's when he or she start encouraging the person. Good luck on the contest
Exactly, that's why I said you can't change people's basic nature. We are all created and blessed with our different personalities, you can not expect everybody to be loud. We need deep thinkers and reserved people i tell you dey sometimes bring the best solution to a problem.