Friends are valuable no matter what happens. Men will always keep their friends while many women give up on them.

If your husband is your bestie what will hapoen if hebdumps uou, dies, gets ill, is too busy to talk to you, what if he can't understand how you feel no matter how hard he tries?

I think it's good for a relationship if both have others to talk and turn too. It keeps the relationship more healthy and there's more room for worry free conversations.