Money & Marriage
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I am @nasir04
From #bangladesh
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Is money central to family happiness? If you think it, please explain it how, but if you think it's not, please tell us what could be.
No, I don't think money is the center of family happiness. Because money can never buy happiness. If someone goes to buy happiness with money, then he will only get human acting, never the sight of happiness.
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I think the heart of family happiness is mutual sympathy. If everyone in the family can understand each other, understand the problem before asking others for help in time of need and come forward to face the problem together, such mutual sympathy will bring peace in the family.
What are some common money related issues among couples in your area?Does this have any cultural undertone?
Due to living together in the family, despite the love between the husband and wife, there are light quarrels between the husband and wife. But sometimes these quarrels become the basis of huge family problems. Which sometimes breaks even an eternal bond like marriage.
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When he comes home, he takes the responsibility of the girl's life from the girl's father. Therefore, the wife has the right to enjoy the money that the husband earns after marriage.
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But, when a daughter comes to a new house during marriage, she works for free all her life in her husband's house and if she earns some money by working outside the house, then that is the extra income of the housewife. And the husband has no right to this income of the wife.
In your opinion, is a wife obliged to submit her salary to her husband at the end of each month?or should it be the other way round
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No, I never think that a wife is obliged to hand over the money she earns every month to her husband at the end of the month. Because husbands have no right over women's money. Girls are free to spend whatever money they earn in their spare time. In this case, the girl is not obliged to answer to her husband.
Why is money such a big issue in marriage lately? What measures will you take to mitigate this problem.
Currently in our country, dowry transaction in marriage means, the boy side demands a large amount of money from the girl side. And the marriage is not completed until this money is paid. And even if the marriage takes place, the girl stays in her father-in-law's house until the dowry money is paid. Inhuman oppression and torture began. Sometimes many homeless people also die, which is really an inhuman act.
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When I grow up, InshAllah, I will work to remove this dowry system with the help of the people around me. If this system of dowry is cured, our society and nation will be freed from a large part of sins.
Conclusion
It is common to have trouble and light heartedness when the family is together. It strengthens the relationship. And if we stay away from each other based on this little thing, then it is our own loss. We must always remember "Money cannot buy happiness". To be happy in life, we must forget all the quarrels with our family and stay together.
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