Nicely written. I honestly love your definition of home. A home should be a haven indeed, a place where peace and love is found. Talking about harsh weather in Kwara state, it's not as bad as the core north but I can't live there either.

I was posted to Niger state during my NYSC, I never loved the camp, I forced myself to go through the scheme, it was the year that brought me both joy and sadness. If you ask me, just like you, I can't go back because home is home .

Best wishes dear.