Contest Alert : "Everybody go chop breakfast" (Everyone must suffer heartbreak before getting it right)... How true?
Hello friends, good day to you all. Thank God is Friday, the start of another weekend. Good to be with you all.
The contest alert by @lhorgic really caught my attention. The topic is Everybody go chop breakfast" (Everyone must suffer heartbreak before getting it right)... How true?.
The statement is usually used many times in our various localities especially as it pertains to a relation between a boy and a girl.
The topic will be thoroughly x-rayed using the tips as a guide.
What is your thought and perspective about the statement, do you agree with this statement.
Like I said earlier the statement is used by many especially the broken hearted or those who have had the experience before.
On a personal note, I would say the truthfulness of it depends on an individual. There are some married people today, who never had such sad experiences. There first and initial relationship metamorphosed into a wonderful marriage, which they are still enjoying till today.
On the other hand, there are some people that had series of broken relationships before finding their soulmate, if at all they do.
So I would say it all depends on an individual and his experiences.
Do you think this statement is valid or misleading?
I think the statement goes for both ways.
It can be misleading for so many young ones today. It will impress in their mind that there will always be series of failed relationship before settling down. So they will not invest much time and efforts in relationships to make it work the first time. That can lead to a lot of problems like, unwanted pregnancies and single parenthood, loss of self respect and dignity caused by broken relationships, even loss of life through suicide.
For some other set of individuals, who are calm and thorough in looking for a mate, having this in mind can assist them to examine and assess an individual before forming such a strong relationship with the person. Taking there time to do so will shield them from the consequences of such action.
Do you have any personal experience or from someone you know to back up your take on the statement? Do share with us.
Personally, I did not have such an experience and most of my circle of friends rarely experienced such. This was because from an early age, we knew that dating is not just a game as many do today, but a serious step towards choosing someone you would like to spend the rest of your life(Marriage).
So before we get serious, we must have made some background checks and weighed some options before we commit.
What advice would you give to your readers in line with the topic in question.
It is usually when individuals are dating that they get broken hearted. So, I want to let friends know that dating should be taken as a serious business, when we understand that, we will take time to decided on whom we are entering into a relationship with.
We need to be mature in our minds to be able to handle relationships. This will go a long way in protecting us from unnecessary breakups in relationships.
Conclusively, I would say that not everyone will suffer heartbreak before getting it right, it can be gotten right at the first time.
I would like to my invite @ruthjoe,, @forrwis09 and @benson6 to participate in this contest.
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You have explained very well on this topic. But I dont agree with you. In my own opinion which I have made my post about it everyone must be served breakfast it may not be on relationship but in other ways.
Hello, thanks for going through my post. I was writing with respect to relationships. Appreciate your contribution.
And excellent write-up about breakfast...
Wishing you the very best in this contest
Thank you for your kind comment.