The Stigma Of The Adopted Child

Happy Sunday to everyone in Steem4nigeria community. I hope you are enjoying your day. Mine is awesome because by God's grace am alive. It's my pleasure to participate in this contest today to also share my opinion in the contest tips. Feel free to read through as I begin.

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Who do you think should represent the family as the first son.

Honestly, being a first son doesn't guarantee you to represent the family. Any one can represent the family, be it a biological son or adopted child but what is most important is some common attribute ones posess. Attribute such as;

• Well behave character both in your family and outside

• Ability to handle situations and put everything at peace

• Good communication skills to stand in the cap for your family

• Being nice, kind and friendly with everyone in the family

• Not been selfish or stingy but caring on how the family is fairing, making sure every member of the family love each other and be in peace with each other.

• Should be a person who has a sense of maturity he him/her that when he speaks every one cares to hear. Someone who's every member of the family marks right on his decision.

These is a person whom I think should represent a family. It could be a son or a daughter.

Do you think an adopted child has equal right with the biological child.

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Sure, adopted child has full right as a biological child expecially when the parents or guardian passes through the normal procedure of adoption. The child is equal to their own biological child.

The child should be love, care for and should be taking responsibilities of everything that concern the child.

What can make a mother to change her love on her once loved child.

Most times the mother changes her love on her once loved child because of the child character. This is one of the attribute that deprived any child that parental love.
No matter the number of children a mother has, she cannot stop loving the one she likes the character or behavior.

Another one could be the mother has an healthy condition that makes her to see everyone around her as a traitor, she will equally not like her loved child again.

Have you encountered any problem as an adopted child or have you seen an unfair love on adopted child before. Feel free to let us know.

No. Have not encountered any problem as an adopted child either have i seen an unfair love on adopted child before but the one I want to share heri is the love I saw on adopted child.

Back then in our village. We have a neighbor close to my father compound who adopted a child due to the fact that all their children has grown up, get married and left only him and his wife. So this family adopted a child to a least have some one in the house with them.

What we observed was that, this couple took a very good care of this child, train the child and take the child as their own. The way this child was, you will not know that he was an adopted child except some one tells you.

To our greatest surprised, the couple also included this boy in their will when they're were still alive. Going forward to warn the children, family members that they should not in any ways try to get want belong to the child whether they are alive or not. Until now, the boy is still leaving under the family care as his own parents.

I will like to invite my fellow steemian to join this contest. @joymm, @vickyson and @etete.

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