You have learned a lot of good things and yes you are right that we should value our life and we should have a complete trust and faith in God because he is the only one who can alternate the situations at any time and no one other can do this.

It's a good luck for you that you not lose your very dear one but you lose your neighbour and neighbours are also a great blessing.Neighbors are the one dont leave us at the time of distress and at the time of happiness also.

Obviously when we are in our childhood then how we can face financial crisis as you have said that you have no financial crisis because you was very young but your father have a lot of financial crisis because he is a person who earns for your family.