SEC - S9W6: " My Biggest Challenge "
What has been your biggest challenge?
When I got married I encounter many challenges in life, especially in my health condition. First I undergo a raptured appendicitis operation where at that time where almost lost my breath. But my biggest challenge in life was when I lost my pregnancy. I'm so happy when I get pregnant at the time because it was my first baby. As a woman, we must take care of our pregnancy so that the baby will survive in our womb. But in 7 weeks of my pregnancy stage, I have vaginal bleeding that reaches the stage of miscarriage. I'm very disappointed in what happened to my pregnancy because it is my first baby.
But my second pregnancy is also the biggest challenge in my life because my second baby stayed in the fallopian tube and I need to undergo again a major operation. I was admitted to the hospital again with a fallopian tube operation to get the baby inside the fallopian tube. It was a loss again in my life's happiness. Losing a baby is not easy to accept as a mother because we are expecting a have a complete family.
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Until now at my age, I have never experienced again to have pregnancy. But today I don't have children that will make me complete.
Tell us, how did you get over it?
I get over my biggest challenge by learning what my experience and overcoming all the struggles in life. After what happened I learned to accept the loss of my pregnancy. I did not blame myself for what happened to me. It is gods will that is why I accept it heartily.
One thing I've done I adopt a child from my cousin. Even though the child is big but I send him to school and help them to be a good person. I was busy with my niece and nephew because they are close to me as their auntie. When I go home to our province they are happy because I spend my time eating together and also watching television is our bonding.
What advice can you give us from your experience?
Challenges are a part of our life journey but we have to face them and try to accept whatever happened. Miscarriage is not an easy challenge for being a mother because you have lost one angel that comes from in your womb. Before having a pregnancy your must consult first a doctor so that you can do some precautions before getting pregnant. Always check your monthly period if it surpasses the date of your menstruation and immediately perform a pregnancy test to check if you are pregnant. Never carry a heavy object when you are pregnant.
If you already experience a miscarriage in your first pregnancy, you have a high risk in your second pregnancy. You must be careful about all the things you have done and make sure that you taking care of your pregnancy.
Thank you very much for your time. I would like to invite @maris75 @kyrie1234 and @bisayakalog to participate in this challenge. Have a nice day everyone.
Best regards,
No imagino ese momento en el que perdiste a tu bebé, solo alguien que lo vive sabe el dolor que se siente. Yo también me convertí en madre pero cada semana que transcurría en mi embarazo vivía pidiendo a Dios que se llevara a término y que nada le pasara a mi bebé.
Gracias por visitar mi publicación.
Saludos. Mis respetos para usted.
La verdad es que ha pasado por Momentos muy difíciles perder un bebé es lo peor que una mamá puede experimentar. Y lo lamento. Sin embargo su fe en Dios la ayudo a superar la tan difícil desafío.
Y es que en esos momentos solo nos queda aferrarnos a Dios y aceptar su voluntad .
Le deseo buena suerte en el concurso.
Gracias por visitar mi publicación.
Hola amiga
me dio mucho dolor leer lo que le paso, a mi mama le sucedió lo mismo con su primer embarazo y cuando habla de ello le salen lagrimas de sus ojos
que tenga un excelente día
No es fácil perder mi embarazo. Pero lo aceptaré de todo corazón porque es la voluntad de Dios. Gracias por visitar mi publicación.
hola amiga. entiendo perfectamentre tu situación ya que yo perdi tres embarazos y es super duro superar algo que te llenaba de gran emoción y alegria. Que bueno que estas cuidando y siendo familia para el niño de tu prima, te felicito. Un Gran Abrazo
Gracias por visitar mi publicación.
wat a nice and great experience you had mam yhat made you strong today
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When you got married you faced many challenges in life especially your health condition. At that time you almost lost your breath where you are undergoing a raptured appendicitis operation. But the biggest challenge of your life was when you lost your pregnancy. When you are pregnant you are very happy because it is your first baby. I appreciate your presentation. Good luck to you.
Yes many challenges in life when we enter married life