Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

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This is my participation in Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC)-w14s1- Neglects in families, the effects on kids By @steemkidss in Steem Kids & Parents

It is said that in joint families, the mentality of children develops very well and they get very rich values. Those children who grow up living in joint families have very valuable values in their life.

They know how to give to others, feel sad in their sorrow and happy in their happiness. Parents also do not have to worry about their children, they are raised by other members of the family.

What does neglect of responsibilities mean in a family?

Neglecting responsibilities in a family makes the whole family abnormal, neglecting children by parents or not knowing about them causes a great danger. Nowadays, due to the increasing demand and supply of material comforts in almost all countries, both husband and wife are doing some employment or business and are very busy in life.

And these husband and wife feel their freedom in being single. Gradually, when they have children and they grow up, the husband and wife are unable to find time for the children from their busy schedules. And this is why children start being neglected. And gradually they go into depression and start becoming irritable.

Most of the children of single-parent families are raised by domestic servants or in foster care, and such children have very poor emotional feelings towards their parents. Their love and affection is not from the heart.

Have you been neglected or seen anyone neglected? What are the effects on the kids?

In my life I have seen a father who neglected and abused not only his wife but all his children. He had a very aggressive nature and was often out of the house for his work and whenever he got a chance to come home, he used to vent his anger on his children and did not even take care of their basic needs.

All those children were victims of their father's neglect and lived in poverty and felt extremely neglected. These children went through mental pain, became introverted, no one respected them in the society. Gradually, they became victims of their shortcomings and also the neglect of society and they were cut off from society.

One of those children, being a victim of neglect, took to the path of crime and to fulfill his basic needs, he started committing small and big crimes like theft, robbery and often got caught in the clutches of police jail.

Your advice to parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their kids

My only suggestion to those parents who do not shoulder the responsibilities of their children properly would be that they should give some time out of their busy time to their children, get information about their needs and their problems. Try to understand the many questions going on in their mind and tell them their solutions.

As children grow older, their minds become very soft and they are quickly influenced by good or bad influences. They understand only what their parents say properly. It is the responsibility of the parents to raise their children even with less money but to teach them high values and values of life.

Your advice to the kids who are neglected

My advice to those children who are neglected by their parents is that they should understand the compulsions of their parents because no parent thinks bad of their children, they only solve their problems properly due to lack of time or money. I don't understand, I know.

Therefore, I would like to tell such children that they should be patient and whenever they get a chance, they must express their feelings to their parents, doing so relieves the burden on the mind and the parents also take the time to solve their problems. Will try. Conversation solves all problems. By suppressing the mind, problems increase instead of decreasing and their consequences are very terrible.

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