SEC | S11W4-""""more freedom""""
Assalamualaikum hello everyone good night and greetings from me and this time I will write a contest "Steemit S11-W4 Engagement Challenge in this case I will take the Steem Kids & Parents community also in the title this time is "More freedom " about how the process,
| What do you understand as freedom as a parent or as a child? |
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I think giving freedom to children is not an easy task. So that the freedom given does not cross the line, it is okay for parents to give this trust to their children. Because as children grow up, children need privacy for themselves. Apart from being busy with school activities, a child is also busy socializing with his friends. When he was small, it was still very easy for parents to monitor their child's activities, but when they were teenagers, parents often had difficulty monitoring our activities. In fact, often the desire of parents for their children is in danger of falling apart because they clash with the wishes of their children. So before that, give some input to the child so that the child understands better and also as parents must also respect the wishes of their child and give us a little freedom as children.
| What can you do to give your children more freedom or what can you do to get more freedom? |
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As children, to get more freedom, we have to make our parents fully trust us by giving us the best we can maintain that trust, namely by continuing to pray even though we are traveling with our friends and not doing things that make our parents ashamed. and of course as children we also have to know the limits if we have been given freedom that there are things we need to follow also the advice of our parents, for example if we have been given a night out by our parents we don't come home late the limit is until 10 pm and if we Where are you going to go, it's better to get permission first and to be honest with your parents, explain it well so that your parents understand that what we are doing is safe and if there are still activities, it is better not to abandon these activities. Because if the child is too restrained it also makes the child stressed so that it makes the child do things that are off the mark
| The advantages and disadvantages of freedom for both parents and children |
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The advantage of freedom is good for parents but still under parental supervision
- Children grow up to be brave children, because children who are given freedom will get used to trying many things. That way he will grow into someone who is brave. Whether it's when children face something or in making decisions, because children are brave also thanks to the support from their parents
- Easy to adapt to a new environment, children who are given freedom by their parents, usually will find it easier to get along with their new environment whether it's where they live, friends, or the closest person. Those who often socialize and interact with many people, people will more easily accept them in a new place
- Likes challenges, if children already have courage then children will like new challenges, when children have mastered something, their thoughts don't stop there, children will practice and learn more because they are constantly challenged with various other kinds
- More respect for parents, because children will respect their parents more if they have been allowed by their parents to satisfy their curiosity. When parents forbid something, the child will appreciate and understand more that this is really not allowed
Loss of freedom if that freedom is not under parental supervision
- Children who do not have rules of behavior, because parents who do not teach boundaries and rules in life will make children not responsible for their behavior
- Can fall into unhealthy friendships, because in child development parents should also teach children about the importance of finding quality friends so they don't get trapped in unhealthy friendships and the importance of monitoring children's social and emotional development when children enter their teens
- Children who are out of parental control have the potential to commit acts that disrupt society. For example fights between gangs, stealing, wild racing and other criminal acts
| What can cause a person to lose the freedom he has? |
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Someone can lose the freedom they have because they have violated the restrictions or rules given by their parents because we also see many children who do not comply with these rules, namely not praying, sometimes going out late and leaving important activities such as reciting the Koran and school. Why is it sometimes difficult for our parents to give freedom to Kira because we are afraid that in the future we will do things that are no longer good
| Why is freedom necessary? |
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In my opinion, freedom is necessary because it allows humans to move forward, and fight for our ambitions according to our own way of life. And makes us braver because if someone forbids something we will be afraid to try it and will be more wary of something.
so for my contest post this time thank you for everything, in this case I invite my friends @hotspotitaly,@anroja ,@radjasalman and @irawandedy to participate here, thanks for everything.
@realworld23
TENTANG SAYA
Greetings friend, very certain that there is a lot of trust and respect towards our parents to have freedom. I wish you a happy day.
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