**SEC17 WK:#5: caring for aged and dependent relatives in the family

Greetings dear steemians

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I'm so delighted to be here this evening, it's also my pleasure to be here one's again I will be participating in another engagement challenge titled "Caring For Aged And Dependent relative's In The Family" it's a very interesting topic which is my best on Caring for families. All thanks to "Steem Kids And Parents" For organising this interesting contest challenge, i will be participating, let's start from here without time wasted...

• We want to know if you have dependent relatives in your family and how your family has been caring for them.

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Currently in my family we have so many relatives which includes my father, mother, Grand father and Grand mother and other relative's as usual. My great grandfather died in the year 2018 he was involved In a motor accident which was very painful to me and the entire family when we received the sad news about my grand father's death. He was a very strong man indeed he was very brave to the extend that he always enters into the forest Alone to hunt animals.

My grandmother was the one that normally takes good care of my grandfather before he now lost his life at the age of 82, I can still remember when I was a very young boy then, I was still staying with my grand parent's at the age of 12, I later came and leave my grandparents to stay with my parents at the age of 18 before I later hear about his untimely which was very painful to me.

My grandmother is a very strong woman even uptil today, she's a good farmer, I decided to be visiting my grandmother during holiday season, when it comes to the exactly day I want to visit her nothing can stops me, this was due to the love that I has for my grandmother even uptil today that love can never cease from me, I love her so much even getting to the extend that I normally follow her to farm.

We would also like to know whether you are doing that out of joy or forced.

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I'm actually doing all this out of the joy I has for them, it's due to how my grandparents cares for me right from when I was staying with them, they normally showed me love in one way or the other in which I can never forget through out my entire life, my grandpa was everything I have expecially when it comes to holiday he will be the one to call me on phone to come and visit him on holiday's, the love that my grandpa has for me didn't have any boundary and I also love him has well even uptil his death😭.

What makes them dependent? Age or circumstances?

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There are some common factors that can make age people dependent, this simply means that in an old age they may require more support due to declining mental health, whereby In a situation like this their brain may not be able to function properly and the same thing with the ears of old people they may find it very difficult to hear from one person or the other.

Grandparents who also move to a new apartment may also require an ongoing support there by doing what they ask you to do by giving them the best comfortable living as usual, there by also providing food and shelter for them this will really makes them feel so special when it comes to the term in which you need to support their needs.

The joys you derive from caring for them. Tell us your own story.

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I actually have so much joy in terms of caring for my parents because I knew very well that what goes around also comes around in a situation where by Caring for them does not mean that all my suffering is in vain no it can never be in vain, because I knew very well that I won't be young forever I will definitely become old one day so due to this I need to help them in any angle of life because I know that one day I will also be help too, so that is just it.

CONCLUSION

I think this circumstances can simply impact grandparents Physical and financial well-being there by Caring for them and also supporting their daily needs.

Thank you all for taking out time to go through my contest challenge, I will like to invite three of my friends to also be a part of this engagement challenge .

@mesola
@loolluv
@Okere-blessing

Best regards✅

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Greetings friend
One of the ways to keep the elders of the family in good spirits is to give importance to them, giving priority to their opinion on any matter. If the elderly at home realize that they are important to the family, it becomes one of the regulators of keeping themselves healthy. And in this case, it is very important to take care of your grandmother after your grandfather's death.

I wish you success in the competition.

Thanks you so much for your meaningful comment.

We cannot run away or avoid old age, every living being must experience a period of withering. The elderly must be supported and cared for so that they do not feel alone. Congratulations on your contest

Thanks u so much ma'am😊

Your welcome

 7 months ago (edited)
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Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 17 in the Steem kids and parents Community.

You made a great presentation on the topic of the challenge. It is indeed a sad story. It is very sad that your grandfather died in a car accident. You are really a great person. Your presentation is interesting.

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Thanks for your verification, I'm so delighted to have your great support thanks alot ma'am 😊🙏.

 7 months ago 

Waw! Your grandma reminds me of my grandma too, she was strong and active even at her old age before she died.

I have missed everything about her and I know all comes with blessings. Aged people are people who has gone far in everything and they are always full of wisdom so, being close to them is the best ever. Success.

Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful thought on my post, I really appreciate it🙌

 7 months ago 

Your welcome my friend.

@princelafresh

I really like your post because you wrote about your grand balance and I would like to say that you have given so much love to your grand parents and they have given you so much love. I am so happy to see that as soon as you were on leave, he used to call you immediately and even come to see you on the day of leave. It was very sad to hear about the death that he died in an accident and it was very shocking when you found out that it could happen like this because then when a strong person in your family died. If it happens, the person gets worried like this, so I give it wisely. I like it very much and you love each other very much and live very happily and you also have a land of Paris farming because he is very strong. Can also keep.

Thank u so much my good friend for your kind hearted word's, I really appreciate😯🙌

Hola amigo, es un gusto saludarte. Es lamentable que ese accidente automovilístico le arrebatara la vida a tu abuelo, debió ser muy doloroso recibir esta penosa noticia. Me alegra que tu abuela sea una mujer fuerte, valiente y que la visites y compartas con ella, las personas mayores necesitan muchas atenciones u sobre todo amor.

Cuidar de nuestros padres y parientes que requieren de nuestra ayuda es un gran gesto de amor y agradecimiento. Fue un gusto leer tu entrada, saludos y bendiciones.


Caring for the aged can be very stressful. If you don't do it with love in your heart, you will end up maltreating the aged person. It is with love that we can care for people very well. Even my dependent relatives, my niece and nephew that the father refused to take care of them and send them to school, its always difficult to help. But because i do it out of love, i can go hungry so that they will have want they want.

I don't want my sister that's their mother to have hypertension, i have to help at every point in time.

Goodluck to you

Thanks dear, I'm also happy to see that you're a Caring type, best wishes dr always keep on sharing your thoughts I do appreciate it

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