I like your preference on large family indeed parenting comes with a mindset, the mindset of you are going to care for your children No matter the economy situation large family or small family I have seen a large family that the father is not that buoyant but he still struggle to give all your children the best life, your point are valid ma.

Nice write up indeed it shows you are a proud parents and soon to be a proud grandma Best of luck 🤞