Steemkids community Contest: Bullies In Your Locality, How Can The Kids Win Over Them?|| 50 Steem Price

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Hello friends kids and steemkidss lovers how are you all doing. I am here to participate in this contest organized by @steemkidss community.

Bullying is a multitudinous aggressive behavior where one person or group of people that is in power consciously intimidates, or abuses, or coerces an individual with the aim to harm that person physically or emotionally. Types of bullying around us may be physical or verbal. Many young people can be unkind to each other during their growing stage as they refine social skills and grow into adults.

Yes they are so many in my locality, some times you will see all this street boys going around pulling people because they are more powerful than those that they pully. And in my kids school a senior student bully my son and I reported it to the school authority.

Yes I have been bully before when I was in a boarding house, I will be ask to pack all the senior student plate and when I am walking down I should not let any one fall down. Another bully i face was in my marital house.

It was so horrible because it was as if the whole world has landed on my head and all the time tears will be coming out from my eyes.

If a child is really bullied, then you are looking for a way out to stop it, You can assist your child deal with teasing, bullying, or mean gossip, that will help essen its lasting impact. And even if bullying isn't the problem right in your house right now, it's necessary to discuss it with your kids so that they will be prepared if it happen.

Bullying usually takes an emotional impost upon the child being bullied, but the measures that constitute bullying vary. There are different forms of bullying, which can take place separately or repeatedly:

• Physical bullying such as kicking the person or pushing the person because you know you are in power.
• Verbal bullying such as you calling or yelling on the person
• Relational bullying such as denying the person or rumor-spreading the person
• Cyberbullying which involves sending hurtful messages over digital devices like computers and cell phones to the person.

Circumstances whereby bullying take place are often more complex than they seem. Three large most recognized roles in bullying are victim, bully, and bystander, bullying circumstances are not commonly. Youth who fall a victims of bullying may also act as bullies under some circumstances.

Youth bystanders can help worsen a bullying condition, or intercede to stop it. Bystanders who make the bullying worse do so by either take part in the bullying themselves or providing the bully with an supportive audience. Helpful bystanders, on the other hand, stand tall for the victim when they see bullying take place, or get someone else who can assist.

Be careful about labeling. While we use the word “victim,” “bully,” and “bystander” to refer to the character that youth can play, it is important to deliberate over the impact that these labels can have on young people’s identities. Many researchers and educators believe that such labeling sends a message that the bullying comportment cannot change.

• the youth’s peers, family circumstances, and school climate. While we use the terms fatality, bully, and bystander throughout this site for understandability , we believe it is good to focus on the bullying behaviors, preferably than the labels.

Both independent who are bullied and who bully others have serious, prolong problems:

• Students who has been bullying are at increased risk for poor school adjustment, they have difficulty in sleeping, anxiety, and depression.
• Students who captivate in bullying behavior are at increased risk for academic problems, material use, and violent behavior later in tender years and adulthood.
• Students who are both targets of bullying and engage in bullying behavior are at high risk for both mental health and behavior problems than students who only bully or are only bullied.
• Students who encounter bullying are twice as likely as non-bullied peers to experience negative health effects such as headaches and stomachaches.
• Kids who are bullied will experience negative physical, school, and mental health problem.

They will experience Depression and anxiety, and increased feelings of sadness and loneliness, changes in sleep and eating patterns, and will not have interest in activities that he or she use to enjoy. These issues may continue into adulthood.

• If you are being bullied before: immediately tell them to stop, walk away from the situation, and tell an adult that you trust, it can be your parents or teacher.
  *If you come in contact with someone being bullied, be an upstander: Tell the person to stop it immediately, get a trusted adult for yourself and reach out and make friends with the person.
• Listen and give support to your children. Work in hand with the school to be sure your child is safe.
• Learn and help train all adults and youth on how to take note and respond to bullying.
• Start a club In your School Anti-bullying Club where youth lead in finding permanent solutions.

We as parents has a lot of role to play in our kids life, we should teach them self defense, let be closer to them so that they can be telling us what they go through in life, as for me I have tell my children to report any bully case around them.

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