Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

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Hello friends wishing everyone good health and going to take my entry. Hope you all are well. By the grace of Allah I am also well. So every engagement contest this week is awesome. So I'm here to enter this wonderful engagement contest hosted by the Steem Kids & Parents community. The topic of this contest is Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids. So I will discuss this topic in detail below. So let's begin.

👉What does neglect of responsibilities mean in a family🙇?

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Family is to be united with the people of the society. First the family starts from one or two. Then when a new guest arrives in the family, the responsibility of everyone in the family increases. Then the mental, physical and financial needs of every person change. Life may seem different then. Because the situation before married life and the situation of married life are not the same. Then the responsibility increases. Then you will become a parent, a consultant as an elder.

Every family in our country is dependent on the father. As each family is father-centered, when a father runs away from his family, he is considered inferior to animals. Because he does not fulfill his responsibilities, he has no responsibility towards his child. There is no such thing as the mind of those who neglect such responsibilities. They are robot type. But they have to face many losses in the future for this behavior.

👉Have you been neglected or seen anyone neglected? What are the effects on the kids

After a baby is born, it needs nurturing the most. For this, the support of his family plays an important role. So if family members show kindness to their children then their children will grow up with proper development. But if they grow up neglected from childhood, then nothing will be created in their minds. Because the most important things in childhood are their knowledge development, strength development and physical development. But many Bengalis of our country are deprived of these.

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I have seen sons of some families leave the family because they are angry with their parents. They live on the streets or seek livelihood at a young age. But even at that moment no action is taken by the family. Because of this, the neglected child becomes hardened. His soft mind is broken and stone mind is created. My condolences for their lives.

A lot of emotions work on children then. Think about the state of that small mind. Due to this bad situation, his attitude towards the world changes and hatred arises. We are very ashamed of this.

👉Your advice to parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their kids.

I am not a father yet. But still from my knowledge I suggest that when you bring a child into the world you have to take all the responsibility towards it. Don't just take responsibility for food. Our religion of Islam says that every child is born with its own sustenance.

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So the thought of his food is arranged by the creator himself. Many situations arise in life, but then a father like you is needed to deal with those situations. Why should children's lives be ruined because of our own wrong decisions? The fate of life can change at any time. So be responsible and teach others to love.

To those who are parents, think about your future and take action. What you teach your children as children, they will learn and apply to you as they grow up. So never neglect children.

👉Your advice to the kids who are neglected

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My advice to abandoned children is that you will never feel neglected. You will never hate or blame yourself. Remember this situation did not happen for you. The reason for this life of yours is the result of the actions of your parents. You will think that your parents never wanted to take responsibility for you in life or did not care about you. But there is no need to blame yourself for this.

Now you remember that your life is just beginning. You have to work hard for the future ahead. You have to fight more. Prepare yourself in such a way that people remember your present and not your past and trust you. Equip yourself with courage. Treat your life as a challenge. After that you can achieve success in your life inshallah.

So this topic is very nice and I am very glad to participate here. So I am Inviting my lovely Steemian friends @patjewell, @zubaer, @solaymann to Participate in this Competition.

Take love From @max-pro ❤️