Your position is understandable, you don't want to make the same mistakes of others close to you, you live in a different historical context and that influences. Bringing a child to work is not the idea, neither does it come to cover your loneliness, your affective or domestic deficiencies. When we decide to form a family, we must be sure that we can offer time, love and attention to that being, whether it is natural or adopted. Children are a treasure but one day we will share them because they grow up and must make their own lives.