I so much like the way you construct your write up and your post is understandable although it's not my understandable language but with the help of translation I've read it through. Sometimes our family or friends hurt us deeper but in everything we need to understand that we humans are not perfect, just like you said we err and make mistakes but that doesn't define. Family seems complicated when both parties doesn't forgive and move so I agree with you. Best of luck friend.