Taking care of our parents and aged amongst us, is our God given responsibility and we most do it with joy and happiness because that's when we would reap the reward. No body wants to be cared for by someone who is not doing absolutely willingly. It not there fault that they are old and just like you have rightly pointed out, some of them became sick from their stress of taking care of us. So why should we not count it as a privilege and not a burden to take care of them.

Thank you for sharing. You mother in-law is very beautiful I most mention .