How to be tolerant in such a convulsed society?

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Hi friends, First of all I would like to say that this is my first post. Let me start my participation by reminding everyone in the community.

The rate of violence in our society is increasingly high, thus going over certain strategies that are executed to prevent this from happening and, the reason for this situation is because, violence always looks for an edge to sneak and in this way cause situations to get out of control.

Currently, academic and work contexts are the scenarios where violent situations develop the most, therefore, it is essential that in these scenarios we learn to use tolerance because otherwise, we will not enjoy the experience of being in these environments.

Tolerance is a topic and a word that stands out with a lot of presence in our conversations however, curiously there are still people who have doubts about it and, this has nothing to do with age but, its definition some people tend to block receiving this knowledge because, they prefer to continue being on the side of intolerance believing that, Being aggressive, it is the best way to be respected and this is far from being so because, violence will never be synonymous with respect.

Now, tolerance is cultivated in us in the simplest way we can imagine because, it is done through education and through this magical seed, we have the opportunity to learn to be empathetic, understanding and cooperative people when relating to other people, this being indispensable tools to be able to develop properly as individuals in the social context.

I am aware that at this moment we were living in the midst of a whirlwind of uncertainties in which religious, political and racial differences are present as well as these are complemented by health problems as occurred during the pandemic generated by Covid-19 and the war conflict between Ukraine and Russia.

All the circumstances mentioned above have a negative impact on us and feeling so much uncertainty for not knowing what will happen or how to solve the difficulty, unfortunately we end up acting under intolerance and to avoid this situation is that, we must learn very well to be tolerant.

If we analyze carefully for a few minutes what it means to be tolerant we will notice that they are two alternatives that are easily within our reach to perform so, there is no need to concentrate on negativity since, tolerance is exercised through acceptance and embrace towards what is very different from us. In addition to this, through tolerance we have the ability to stop the bad action of issuing judgments, opinions and accusations regarding the actions carried out by other people and thanks to our bad pointing, feelings of those we are riddling can be hurt.

Keep in mind that, the objective that is sought to achieve with tolerance is that we all learn to live in harmony because, by nature we will always be different and, this is not bad, rather, I think that if we were all equal, life would be very simple and even boring because, not in the absence of a differential factor, There is nothing new to learn.

Particularly whenever I see a situation of intolerance I ask myself, "Why is it difficult for us to accept that there are millions of reasons to lead lives in isolation from intolerance?" I am sure that if we all build a kind society away from intolerance, coexistence will be very enjoyable and 100% civilized.

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Conflicts will always be present since, it is normal in a society as globalized and generational as ours, therefore, in large part these scenarios tend to be triggered by the various misunderstandings that occur therefore, when we see that the problem said present, we will solve it by talking as civilized people that we are since, Communication is the most civilized art exercised by man and through it, tolerance is achieved fluently.

Tolerance is one of the values that we learn from an early age and as we advance in age, it can be strengthened if we wish or failing that, it is lost in its entirety. In view of this, it is essential that at home an atmosphere of respect always develops so that the various realities of life do not interfere with the moment of maintaining this habit.

Perhaps many times, like me, they have asked themselves: How can we be tolerant in this convulsed society? Well, curiously the situation is not as complicated as we preliminarily believe it and I will exemplify them so that they perceive it more dynamically.

If from childhood we approach adverse scenarios in which we live daily, we have a broader vision of the differences that exist in the world, therefore, seeing these realities makes us understand that if someone requires our help, we can reach out to improve their situation.

In another aspect, we must assimilate that by nature we are social beings therefore, problems are situations that are triggered in a normal way and instead of concentrating on the conflict, we must focus our attention on creating solutions so that the differences we are having with something or someone, are finally solved because, it is not pleasant to live in a conflictive environment. Because of this, let's not be afraid to exercise communication because as I said earlier, this is the most beautiful art that we human beings have.

Tolerance is based on emotions and if we want to develop it, the ability to be empathetic easily enables us the way to get rid of intolerance since, empathy connects us instantly with other people and beyond judging, criticizing or condemning them, we have the opportunity to approach them to contribute to developing a tolerant social context.

tolerance is learned and educated as many times as we consider necessary because, if we do not strengthen this value, social upheaval can make us stagger and lead us to intolerance, an action that we can never allow for that reason, every day when we face a problem, let's ask ourselves how tolerant we want to be because, intolerance the only thing it generates is the closing of doors.

Thank you so much for reading

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