SEC17 WK:#1: Forgiveness unites family

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Forgiveness is not weakling.

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Just as it is said in this amazing contest, "forgiveness is that quality that is uncommon in the world around us. In our world today it is very difficult to forgive and let go. Those that do forgive again sometimes are taking for granted, their acts of forgiveness are sometimes misinterpreted to mean they are weak.

A wife with such perspective or school of thought may want to take her husband for granted, during counselings as a Pastor I have experience such cases. Never you mistake your husband's forgiving spirit to mean he is a weak man. This is why some men seems to be very had and tough because of fear that they may be taking for granted.

No one is too Big to Forgive or to be Forgiven.

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Human being can not in anyway ignore the significance of forgiveness or the consequences of lack of forgiveness wether they are rich or poor, fat or slim, black or white, boss or subordinate; your religion not withstanding, culture and tradition old or young, man or woman we must forgive.

You may be a religion leader or a deity, situations at times in our lives will always require us to ether forgive or plea to be forgiven. Sometimes it seems impossible to live a perfect live without being offended or you offending another. Funny enough your actions or inactions at times do still offend others, I see it to be a kind of natural in our journey as human being.

Husbands do offend their wives or sometimes wives do offend their husbands, children offending parents or parent offending their childrens. Subordinate do offend their superiors or superiors offending subordinate officers at work. Whichever we find ourselves, always remember to forgive. Creat an accommodative space in your heart to always let go.

Don't be too Big to Apologise.

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Father be humble to ask your wife or children for forgiveness when situation requires, mother and children be humble to do like wise. Don't be too big to ask God our maker for forgiveness for our iniquities to be forgiven. We must unashamedly apologize to each other anytime we wrong each oder. I discovered that lack of sorry has caused so much havock in many families, working places, marriages etc.

The Worth or Power of Forgiveness.

I view forgiveness as a healing tab that can get rid of this enemy of the soul call bitterness. Bitterness can bring set backs in the life of its victim beyond imagination, the damages bitterness can cause is very vast which can be very threatening to the soul or life of a victim.

Always do everything possible to get rid of it to avoid being a victim of its casualty, and the way out of it is to forgive those who offend you. Important enough when we forgive it brings healing to our spirit and soul.

It is so important to note that when the disciples ask Jesus to be taught on how to pray, the portion of that prayer model was "forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespasses against us. You can imagine with the bulk of the numerous and enumerable needs of men Jesus picked this important topic "forgiveness" in just a short prayer model which potrays it value and worth.

Is there any scenario that took place in your family which brings out the beauty of this quality?

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Yes of course! Just like any other family, my family talking about my father mother and down to us the children and our wives; the spirit of forgiveness has being the reason why we have not tear apart like others.
Lack of Forgiveness has scattered marriages or families, it has destroyed relationships. Forgiveness has helped my family to bond without separation all this while.

I'm inviting @saintkelvin17, @samuelernest and @josepha to join this contest.