SEC | S11W4-""""More Freedom""""
Asalam-o-Alikum |
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Greetings Everyone. I am Asad Fazal from Pakistan. I hope everyone here in STEEM KIDS & PARENTS are doing well and enjoying their life by the grace of Allah Almighty. Today I here to take part in SEC Season11 Week4 challenge with topic "More Freedom". Let's discuss it further!
What do you understand to be freedom as a parents or kid? |
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Actually freedom means to be independent in making decisions and to do anything you want. Being kids, freedom is when we are taking responsibilites on our own and parents let us stay independent of our actions. They let us make decisions no matter right or wrong. The reason they do is to let us learn what is this world and how people will be with you in different situations.
As freedom of kid, it means to do anything on our own and must be accountable for what we did. The children are not forced by the parents or any third person for making decisions and doing things. They do it independently and no one will ask them about their actions. It makes the children not fear of parents if they do wrong because it is how they will learn what is wrong and right.
When they do wrong things, they will face the consequences from this world and parents will not help them as it is their decision. If they do good things, it will help them learn new things and what life is all about.
What can make you to grant more freedom to your kids or what can you do to earn more freedom? |
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As a parent, to grant more freedom to our children is how they win our trust. How they behave with us and with other people. Are their actions wrong or are they able to control that much freedom in this age. All of these things let parents decide whether they should give more freedom to son and daughter or take the freedom that was already given.
Sometimes children do wrong things and we have to force them to do right things. I remember when my elder sister's daughter of 4 years age and 9 years age do something wrong, I limit them for using mobile and watching TV for few hours, it let them think that they did the wrong thing thats' why being punished.
But when children are going in right direction, we need to give them more freedom as it is their right. If we limit their actions everytime, their brain will not develop properly. Another thing is they will not be able to face the life hurdles and up and downs. So giving freedom is parents decision upon the actions of children.
Advantages and disadvantages of freedom both to parents and kids |
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Everything in life has it's good and bad results so does the freedom. The first advantage of giving more freedom to kids is they will grow very quickly as they will face the world. They will learn what life is about. Second is if parents dies, they can still live in this world. Another advantage is they can make decisions no matter right or wrong but at least it will be their responsibility and they own it.
There are also some disadvantages like more freedom can sometimes lead to misbehaving of children. It can make them rude with us and they will not listen to us anymore. Second is if parents give freedom without teaching them moral education and ethics of life, it will back bite them later. Last is they may not respect elders and will become spoiled child.
What can cause one to lose the freedom he or she has? |
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Breaking the laws of the country or home or society can lose the freedom of any person. Our bad actions and decisions that hurt or injured other people can lead to lose of freedom and can also lead to prison.
In house, if kids are given more freedom and they take it for doing wrong things, parents have full authority to take back the freedom they gave them before. It is for the good of children so children must also understand this.
Why is freedom necessary? |
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Every human being born free and it is their right to be free. No matter you are a child or parent, both of you need freedom in doing things and taking actions and making decisions. A newborn baby also wants freedom, no matter they can't walk or crawl much but still they need some freedom. If we force them in one spot they will definitely cry.
In a country, freedom is necessary but it is also in limits because if everyone is given freedom to max they will break the laws and other people will get hurt or injured. So yes freedom is necessary because it helps you know what is life and let you have knowledge on different things. But too much freedom is bad for everyone.
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Kids do need space to develop and face challenges, but as you pointed out, too much freedom without guidance can lead to some not-so-great outcomes. The example you shared about limiting screen time for your sister's kids is relatable. Your ideas are well-structured and make a lot of sense. Thanks for inviting me and I wish you the very best in this contest! 😊
Thank you dear brother for accepting my invite. I hope to see your post soon here 💕 💕
¡Saludos amigo!🤗
Cuando se educa un niño con libertad, automáticamente se le da las herramientas para que él sea una persona segura, comprometida y dispuesta a solucionar los problemas que se le presenten en la vida por ello, no hay que olvidar educar con libertad.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚
Gracias por este valioso comentario. Estoy de acuerdo contigo en que debemos enseñar a nuestros hijos con libertad para que se conviertan en buenas personas de la sociedad y no se sienten con gente mala. :)
Everyone needs freedom in living this life.
Yes it is important but at what age how much freedom must be given should be decided by our dear parents.
Heres a free vote on behalf of @se-witness.
Thank you :)
Para dar libertad como padres debemos enseñar primeramente en valores , es mi. Opinion particular, luego eso dara las bases para que nuestros hijos desarrollen un comportamiento adecuado y tengamos la tranquilidad de dar libertad mientras no sean capaces y responsables de asumir las consecuencias de sus acciones. Exitos.
Sí, es importante enseñar primero a nuestros hijos y luego darles libertad. Yo digo que los padres deben decirles las consecuencias de hacer el mal, qué dirán las leyes si hacen algo ilegal si los padres les dan libertad. Entonces, si les enseñamos bien, nos beneficiará mucho a nosotros y a nuestros hijos. Gracias por el comentario :)
Creo que la desventaja de la libertad esta cuando nos dan mas libertad de la cuenta para nuestra edad, madurez y sin control. Suerte en su reto. Bye.
Sí, dijiste bien, dar más libertad a una edad temprana o la edad en la que tanta libertad no es buena, hará que las cosas empeoren pero no sean buenas. Gracias por el comentario :)
Así es amigo
Si un hijo abusa de la libertad que le hemos dado y la toma de forma incorrecta para hacer cosas malas tenemos todo el deber de corregirnos y de enseñarles con algún castigo que estuvo mal para que no lo vuelvan a hacer.
Mientras están pequeños, porque si permitimos que suceda sin corrección, cuando sean adultos no serán personas de bien.
Lo que puede traerles que sean privados de su libertad.
Así mientras crecen irán entendiendo que lo mejor es respetar los límites que trae la libertad y asumir la responsabilidades que trae consigo.
Que tenga un excelente día 👋
I agree with you on the part that limiting the freedom of children constantly doesnt allow them to develop properly