Steeming Community Contest | "Your Story 3" |A Great Father Who Became The Best Mother|

in Steeming Community3 years ago (edited)

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Have a great day #steemingcommunity. Today, I will share with you my story in #yourstory3. But first of all, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to @fabio2614 for the continuous support of this great community.

Honestly, I don't have something in my mind right now to be with some wild imaginations, but I just suddenly remember a friend of mine who shared his marriage life to me, so I will just share this story here instead. "But first things first", before I made this content, I also asked permission and approval from him especially the photos that I used."

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I had this friend. We knew each other in my previous employer where I worked with. We weren't that close but he is as gentle as the sheep. I think, all the good behavior and characteristics was on him already that you could not find with the other guy. Well, we all different in so many ways, but it's just so amazing to know a man like that though.
He got married at the age of 27. He married that girl for the fact that it got pregnant with his baby and it was an unplanned marriage after all. Despite that, they lived happily like perfectly. And after how many months of being pregnant of the wife, it's time for the delivery already. They were blessed by a cute baby girl.

But as the time goes by, while living in the same house, his wife's behavior changes little by little, that he don't understand already, where in fact sometimes he could not able to stand with it. He just don't mind it because as he thought that he would just still understand his wife's behavior because she might have some postpartum depression, or a condition of a mother, right after childbirth.

Weeks past after giving birth, his wife started to had night gigs with some of her friends, and returning home late at night being drunk. Since then, they were arguing most of the times, because, can you imagine of a breastfeed baby with a mother like that? How would the baby be healthy with that? Like drinking a liquor from her mom's, instead of milk? Ohhh,, it's really a joke friend. With that situation, his wife got worsen everyday.
After a month, or two, his wife ran away from home with another guy and left her daughter to him. He just don't understand what's going on with his life back then, but for the sake of his daughter, he had to be strong and do whatever it takes.

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Since then, he managed to take good care of his baby. He able to do what mothers do until her baby learned how to eat, to smile and laugh, to walk, to play, and even to say the word "Papa", which could melt each fathers hearts upon hearing it for the first time.

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Weeks, months, and even years passed, his daughter really grew up well inside and out. And I could see it also. While scrolling their pictures in his social media account, I could tell that he really guide his daughter all the way from being a kid, up to now. Their sweetness and special bonds just shows how he treat her well. And this having a medal from school is one of the good example of being a good learner and a good listener. A really loud clap for you my friend. You did well for your kid. I could just see how you mold your daughter to be a good person. Just keep it up. I am pretty sure, everything what you taught with her, she would treasure it for the rest of her life.

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I knew that being a single dad is so difficult to deal with as I could see the struggles in every father that I used to know who's been a single dad. Because, almost all of us think that husband and wife have their own duties and responsibilities to each other, so it's literal that they are not used to being like a mother. They had to learn first on how to handle everything just to be able to do mother-stuffs. But who would have thought that being a good husband, and a great father suddenly became the best mother? Well, doing all those stuffs and these and that, really made him like that. I am so proud of you friend.
HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!!

P.S: This is a real life story of my friend, but before I made this content, I first asked permission from him if I could do this, and fortunately he approved it. I even attached our convos here. Photos credits to the owner.
Thank you for sharing your story with me and for letting me do it with my content as well.

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This picture above just shows how the father able to managed and achieve his duties and responsibilities as a good parent and for being the best father with his child.

I am also thankful to my father who molded us this way from the very beginning. We are so grateful for all he did to us. We are not what we are right now if it's not because of him.


Happy Fathers day to all fathers out there.


I would also love to hear #yourstory3 guys @saneunji, @fruityapple00, @aziel29, @jenny018 and @rosa2021.

Thank you for taking time to read my story. More power everyone.

========❤==@hae-ra==❤========

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 3 years ago 

!zen 30

Wow, your friend's story is great, extend my congratulation to him

by the way what happen to those pictures? It can't be viewed

Your entry has been approved. Your participation is highly appreciated. I wish you good luck!

 3 years ago 

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 3 years ago (edited)

@fabio2614 Thank you so much. Yes I'll sure to do that.

Why it can't be viewed? I don't think so. Huhuhuhu,, is anything striking me again now? Mine is fine here. You mean all the pictures can't be viewed or just several of it?

 3 years ago 

@fabio2614 do you want me to put all the pictures in the comment? Maybe there's something wrong again. 😥

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