What good qualities does your life partner possess? Or you'd want them to possess by uzma4882

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The core purpose behind to getting married in Islam to get peace , save our self from sins and pure complete family and nation too. All of these are valuable for a fulfilling and productive wedding relationship, Islam is a simple, clear and balanced way to follow and successful our married life

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What good qualities does your life partner possess? Or you'd want them to possess

Material life with someone is a huge and difficult decision that have to be taken after a complete couple of time and consideration.Choose a life partner for your ahead happy and healthy life is much considerable choosing as house to better your life style or a job to upgrade your standard of living.you have to think seriously and leave the ahead matter to Allah.AllhumDuAllah my parents have right decision about selection of my life partner.

Here with sharing the best qualities that should be acknowledged and posses to become your life and hereafter beautiful.

Should have good attitude

Inner personality is much more meant or meaningful as your outer look. A muslim should have pure soul and kind heart. His attitude or behavior will automatically be good to you..If we follow the Sunnah of Hazart Muhammad(PBUM) we have come to know that He was so polite and kind with his wives. That's the perfect example to make our marriage life sucseed by choosing beautiful heart spouse.

Give respect & Forgiveness

Husband wife relationship is a long term or you can life time agreement in which both should give and take respect and ignore each others fault.
This is, without even a doubt, one of Islam's most important aspects. No one can be accept forgiven unless they forgive others. Allah, the most beneficial, is the source of creating love in our hearts. For a good marriage connection in Islam, we must learn to forgive each other and give respect to thier feelings.

Your beliefs and morals are respected by them.

Both have obligations to respect each others feelings and views.Sometimes you cant agree on both views but you have no allow to regret each others morals and beliefs. Take time and appreciate each others views . It makes your married life easy and happily for prolong time.

Be thoughtful ,Kind and give gifts

For making your married life more beautiful and happy. Than you have to exchange with each others kinds words or gifts. It built up your trust on each other and make your marriage life more productive. It doesn't matter gift is small or big, the point is it have bundle of feelings and love for your life partner. However, there are situations when a thoughtful gift makes a person feel even more unique and valuable in your life.

Remember the good time and protect to each other

An other important point to be considered as for best quality in your life partner that is responsible for safeguarding the honour of the other. Marriage is the agreement of collaboration. Prophet Muhammad (sall Allahu alaihe wa sallam) and Sayyidah Khadijah R.A, who were the ultimate team, are one of the best example of this.Protect your life partner and think positivity into their lives with this in mind.Remember that you are the other half of a winning team, not merely a marriage partner. Inshallah, your relationship is a growing asset and a strong foundation on which you will raise your children and achieve half of your deen's goals.

They clarify why they admire you

Both have should know about your feelings of each others. Qualities and attributes of each others. What are you going to be next. These all aspects are meant to getting understand each others. Through this you can defend well against each other.

Your partner wants (about) the same things out of life as you do.

You have both different minds and views But both have one soul and heart.Married is a lifetime agreement in which you have to compromise with each others on various scenarios, If you have done it positively than its too easy both of you to move on successfully. Moreover Avoiding having more misunderstanding, its important sit together and resolve all issues that make risk of your marriage life.

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Respect your Mother and Father

Married is happening in two families. And you have to respond with due respect and kindness with each other parents.Becasue parents are the key of your happiness .They have done right decision to your happy marriage life. After words, you have responsibility to give respect and give time to mother and father. Its golden opportunity to get prayers and make your life more easier and happy.

They are happy to make compromise

As a said before, marriage is a life time agreement, if you want to succeed in your agreement than you have to compromise on different facing scenarios. Because of this your life partner will be to resolve the problem that you are facing both and making risk of developing misunderstandings in your marriage life.

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Captivate your interests

That is the way to get to know about interest and taste of your life partner. Like both have same likeness to watch Hollywood movies, dinner once a day in a week. Have same choice to wear and move on a beautiful place to stay. These are the magnitude that close both of you and made your life beautiful.

Share your vision for the successful future together

You life partner cant be make progress by hiding with you his secret objectives. Wife always support and give advice to upgrade thier life style. Both have to complete thier home. So its important to share targets with each others for moving in life successfully.

Remain faithful to you

In married life your partner should be sincere and faithful to you. Because you have to spend whole life with each other. Trust on each other is first priority. Due to this your marriage bonding will strong more.

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Conclusion

The Islamic way of life not only ensures an individual's happiness and satisfaction, but it also improves society as a whole through following Shariah regulations. Because society is made up of families, and families are formed through marriage relationships.So respect each others and give time to each other for understanding and make your marriage life happy and strong.

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