we are helpmate to our partner and we should be able to stand by our partner in every situation, and not be hidden in four corner of a kitchen

I strongly agree with you my dear. Women are true help mates. My issue is he wrong conception which people carry around about women only being in the kitchen. Women can be outstanding with other things

some kids believe they can continue doing the wrong things because they know it is just a punishment and they are used to it.

I used to be like this back in my secondary School days. I wasn't scared of punishment but the many I would do it will make you angry. We had a boarding master who didn't like my class as we didn't give into his sexual and other demands, he resulted in punishing us for nothing with a horse whip. Due to that he decided never to cry or show pain when he punished us. This always angered him until he stopped.

Punishment without a lesson is useless