Steemit Engagement Challenge Week 3 || Defend the Statements || by @simonnwigwe

Hello guys, Welcome once again to my blog. Today I will be participating in the contest organised by the steemit Pakistan community. The community contest this week is about defending some statement and this will help give our view on the topic under review.

This is indeed a very strong statement. Though everyone has his/her view on this but in my case I agree with the statement. As a matter of fact, I have a philosophy that state that after God the next thing one should have in life is money and not love.

Though a lot of persons always use the phrase money is not everything. This statement is indeed true but money also plays a very important role in every relationship or love affairs. In our todays world, if a man does not have money, you will notice that he will lack respect in the relationship.

A woman can love you unconditionally, but it will get to a stage where she will start thinking other wise. Most especially if she comes in contact with a man that shows her love and showers her with money as well.

With money in a relateionship, the man will be highly respected and his decision in the relationship will be respected but if he does not have money, there will always be arguments and fight in that relationship. To me love can never be sweet without money.

If there is no money and the relationship leads to pregnancy which brings forth children at the end, you will notice that the need for payment of school fees will come, payment of different bills etc. If there is no money, where can they settle all these bills.

Just as I have said earlier, after God the next thing anyone needs in his life is money and not love. No matter how you love someone, you can not eat the person. So for a relationship to be suitable enough, one needs money. So money is more important than love.

This statement is really a contradicting statement because the word of God says he who finds a wife finds a good thing. But what of situation where your marriage is a living hell.

There are lots of situation that I have seen and even recently, a woman died in her marriage because of domestic violence. So in such a situation, you will notice that all through her marriage life she has been enduring instead of enjoying her marriage.

Another scenario is when you marry and unfaithful husband or wife. When you find your self in such a marriage, you will continual wish you never had started in the first place. The marriage becomes a living hell for you. Take for instance your husband brings his girlfriend to the house and you as a woman can not speak even when you try to approach him he beats you in the presences of the side chick.

Seeing all this happening has made a lot of persons instead that the rather remain unmarried. In my country here in Nigeria, we have a lot of baby mama's I.e women who just look for a man to pregnant them and then they will give birth to their child and then train him alone.

I think they have seen trauma in marriage and they can not be able to bear it and that is why they choose this very part. It is important to say that marriage is designe to be a life time commitment and for that reason, a lot of persons can not be able to endure the trauma for a year.

In life I have seen a lot of persons who are not married and yet they are very happy. No complain about their partners and that keeps them even more happier. When ever you remain unmarried, you will gladly take decision by yourself without consulting anybody and that makes it more easier to live your life.

We we see this statement more often most especially in the engagement challenges that started about 3 weeks ago. The steemit team has repeatedly state it via the post made in the steemitblog that votes are not guaranteed.

As we all know, people always put in mind that after writing an article, it is expected that they receive a consolidating vote from the curator but since the engagement challenge comprises of almost all those who are present in the steemit platform and the steemcurator01 and steemcurator02 can not cover all the article, the statement is used to keep every body mindset off the vote.

Most times we think that the only when we tag the curator, that is when he will see our post but it is not true. As a matter of fact, the curator has address this issues over and over again that we should stop tagging him in our post because if everyone in steemit should tag him then who will he attend to.

What is required from every steemian is to produce a quality article and then hope that the curator finds it interesting because they curator does not vote anything that does not add value to the platform and steemians at large.

As a way to reduce the number of participant in the engagement challenge so that the curator can reach at least some numbers of person, the club status initiative was brought and to add to it the idea of not using bot to buy vote is also used. In this way the number of entry is reduced and almost everyone gets one or two votes at random.

In addition, all you need to do as a steemian is to try and participate in all the contest as you don't know which the curator will support you. Make sure all the post you want to present are quality enough and then write and continue writing. Remember that votes are not guaranteed.

In conclusion, I have written based on my understanding about the three statements. I might have not explain deeply but I am also making the comment section available in case if you have any contribution or any question about all I have written above. I want to invite specially @josantos, @predomina, @pelon53, @yakspeace, @dave-hanny to please join me in this contest.