INFERTILITY!! A Hidden Pain
Many of you will think the world's population is increasing day by day is this girl crazy? saying every sixth woman is facing infertility, only that person can understand who is going through or who is survived, before I start talking about what I want to say let me tell you what infertility is.
Infertility occurs when someone is unable to conceive
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Why do Women Face Infertility?
No one knows the answer and no one can tell you because I still didn't get its answer, commonly women are diagnosed with any disease because of which she is not able to conceive that point makes them relax because she knows she will take medication and will conceive soon. However, when you get no reason no illness no infection and still you are facing infertility then everyone is helpless.
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Commonly asked questions by people!!
Having baby?
Why?
What is the problem?
Is the problem with you?
Do you take medication?
Try to visit this/that
Take this kind of food
Don't do this
I mean what is the problem with people? Why they don't let you live your life in your way? Why they are interested so much in your life? Why they are more worried than you about your conception? While they show worry in front of you but they do not!!
How do you cope with everyone around you?
Attending baby showers, watching your friends and family happily talking and playing with their kids, it will be hard spending time there you will make left early with some tears, I have no solution for that but I had some tricks that are healing.
• Spend more time with family because they will never let you feel sad even for a moment.
• if you are far then call them and share what you are feeling in this way you will not dig down in anxiety.
• write posts on steemit and stay active on social media so you will get no time to think
• cooking is one of the best solutions to make yourself busy if you are interested in cooking, you will kill your time and your husband's tummy will also be happy.
• Have a pet like cats dogs parrots hens etc, trust me they will not let you give time to remember your worries.
• Try to exercise daily because it's a source to overcome from depression.
Take a proper treatment stepwise trust me nothing is impossible if you believe in Allah.
• I'm saying ignore people, I know this thing is not easy.
all these tips work to overcome your depression and lead to a fertile life If you want to conceive you have to cut down on worry because anxiety disturbs the level of the hormone and it causes infertility, cut down that people who took more interest in your lives just for the sake of gossip, pray five times and recite surah Maryam every day, In Sha Allah, everything will be okay.
You've picked a different topic to write on, that's great.
Having said that, i wanna add some more things to women infertility, as I've studied biology.
There is not only a single factor that causes infertility in women, it's not a single disease, but a syndrome(multiple diseases combined in one body, and multiple symptoms appear).
Number one thing is sedentary lifestle that has happened in this era, go to any village where the women are active all day long and eat no junk (bakery items, sugary or starchy things), you'll see no such hormonal imbalance.
They say every obese women might not get it but every women with infertility will definitely be obese.
This issue can be overcome with maintaining a balance in your physical, emotional and mental health.
And for mental health, cut out negatively from your real life and social media, no one is more important than your sanity❤
Yes i choose this topic because rarely people talk about this may they feel shy.
I know there are many causes because of which infertility is becoming common in women, but my purpose to write this post is to talk about why people are so interested.
When doctor check the patient first advice is given to her is stay happy don't think more, the more you will be happy chances will be more to get conceive because moods disturb the harmones level.
She really try to be normal and forget the situation going on but the people don't let her.
Yes indeed, asian women make sure that no woman lives in a good mental state, sadly they have also been mentally abused in their life. The one who choose to break this cycle and get healed first, only won't hurt any other woman.
It always breaks my heart to see how women face the heartbreak of infertility. We make excuses for what is not even in the power of this poor woman. All the tips you have mentioned are encouraging. Hope people will benefit from it. May Allah bless all childless couples with His mercy and give courage to the women who are going through this difficult time, Aameen
True, its really hard to listen everyone's suggestions, they behave like they know everything, you know once a neighbor visit our home started same topic and told that she had watched on tv that eating white/brown bread instead of roti causes infertility 🙄now you tell does this make any sense?
There is no end to ignorance. Just give advice even if it has nothing to do with it. You can't even give a shut-up call to such people because they still don't stop 😕
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You raised an important issue. Infertility is increasing in World, there is no appropriate answer to this problem.
I agree with your point of view anxiety and depression disturbs the hormonal level.
@drhira anxiety sometimes like you want to cry or shout and only can be understood by the people who pass through this situation.
You have raised such an important issue! People here start asking very intruding personal questions after a month of wedding, this is because of the lack of basic manners and etiquettes. Something that makes me more sad is that mostly people don't give shut up call to them and listen to them quietly with heavy heart