"Beware of Bullying"
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My Dear Friends,
I am @shahid76 from Bangladesh.
Steemian friends, how are you all? Hope you are all well by the grace of Allah. I am also fine by the grace of Allah. Today I am going to participate in the new engagement challenge brought by STEEM INDONESIA. The name of the engagement challenge is "Beware of Bullying".I hope everyone will like my article.
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👉During your life, have you ever received bullying? If so, in what form? physical, verbal or through cyber bullying. Provide your review? |
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👉Bulling in school:-
I have been bullied several times in my life. I have been physically broken at times. I was bullied for the first time when I was in class four in school. When I was promoted from class three to class four, I was first in my class. Many students could not accept this. Then they started to torture me mentally in various ways. They used to leave dust on my seat, and sometimes hide my books and notebooks. I complained to the teacher but did not get any benefit due to lack of proof.
👉Bulling in colldege:-
When I started college, my classmates used to give me a lot of trouble. They used to tease me about my physical condition. I am a little short physically. My height is 5 feet 2 inches. They used to call me Gittu because I am short.
I used to suffer a lot when they called me this name. I tried to avoid their insults with a smile. But I could not find any peace in my heart. I asked Allah “Why you did not make me short and make me face this insult? I will be humiliated till death. Must endure.”
👉Bulling in work place:-
At the beginning of my working life, I was subjected to human bullying. When I first joined my job, my assistant manager and my colleagues could not take me easily. For some strange reason, they started to dislike me. I was given work that was not mine. 9 hours I had duty time, sometimes it was 14 hours. Also, sometimes I had to do 24 hours.
This incident was done only during my time. There was no such rule for my other colleagues. I used to suffer a lot seeing all this. But I never protested.
👉How do you equip your children to avoid bullying either at school or in their social environment. |
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Bullying and bullying everywhere nowadays seems to be an easy and common thing. It is a bit difficult to handle children from this terrible situation. It cannot be said that they too will not be affected by human harassment and bullying. So, I will take some steps to keep my children free from these harassments. They are: -
- Etiquette: -
I teach my children good manners. I believe if someone misbehaves by nicely talking to him, he will be flexible. By doing this my child will be free from harassment. - Friendly behavior: -
Be friendly with children. If you can do this, the child will share all his good and bad. If there is any problem in the child, it will be easy to solve it. - School Authority: -
Always keep in touch with the school authorities. They should be advised, if necessary, that they should pay equal attention to all the students. Take care that no one can insult anyone.
- Patience: -
Patience is a great virtue. Children are blessed with this virtue, and I encourage that. - Avoid Bullying: -
I teach Some simple techniques to my children to avoid bullying such as self-defense techniques. - Meditation: -
I make children interested in meditation. As a result of meditation, you can adapt yourself to any situation.
- Prolongation: -
It is not possible to keep an eye on the children all the time. Therefore, they have to be protected from their danger.
👉Give your opinion on how to overcome bullying in form physical, verbal or through cyber bullying. |
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Starting from young children, everyone has to accept bullying somewhere. It is become a big problem in our society. Lately, harassment has been accepted in various ways through social media.
- It is an absolute duty to overcome this situation. Therefore, where the situation of bullying occurs, it should be properly judged by contacting the authorities.
- Every child should be taught ideals and manners then this kind of bullying situation will not arise.
Avoid those who engage in bullying.
- Those who commit such misdeeds through social media should be muted.
- If necessary, the help of the administration should be taken.
- In our country, if you make a complaint by calling 999, the administration takes action against it.
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👋I observed your post very nicely which I like very much.But you also sacrificed a lot in primary school and endured a lot of humiliation in college life.We all know God does not mix us up. We must accept these sorrows.Anyway, I'm on your side, thank you so much for mentioning me.Good luck to you.😍
Hello @shahid76!
First of all, I want to say that I'm sorry to hear that you have faced bullying in different stages of your life. No one should have to go through that.
Your courage in sharing these experiences is admirable. The way you are working to protect your children from bullying by teaching them good manners, encouraging friendly behavior, and providing them with self-defense techniques is truly commendable.
Furthermore, your suggestions on how to overcome bullying, such as seeking intervention from authorities and promoting ideals and good manners, are very insightful. It's crucial that we work together to create an environment where bullying is not tolerated.
Thank you for participating in this challenge and sharing your reflections. I wish you the best, and I hope your message reaches those who need to hear it!
See you soon! 😊👋
@viajarparasanar, thank you so much for giving your valuable time to read my post and your beautiful comments.
Considero que hay que conseguir un equilibrio en el trato hacia los hijos. Si bien es cierto que muchas veces es necesario una corrección en cuanto a las actitudes, la misma no pude venir en forma de ataque verbal o burlas.
Aparte de inculcar valores que no estén ligados a las formas mediáticas impuestas por sistemas sociales que basan sus ideas bajo las premisas de burlas y humillación hacia los demás.
La experiencia personales negativas sufrida por los padres en su etapa de infancia deben ser un motivo para implementar un fortalecimiento en acciones positivas y no excusas para inculcar malos actos.
Conseguir el balance no es fácil, pero tampoco imposible.
Suerte en el concurso.
Hasta la próxima...
@theatrorve, thank you so much for your valuable comments.
¡Holaaa amigo!😊
Lamento mucho que te hayan lastimado tanto amigo... El Bullying es una acción que no debemos darle tarima porque, hace mucho daño a nivel físico y mental. Siempre digo que, quienes ejecutan el acoso, no son personas sino, bestias.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚
@paholags mam, thank you so much for giving your valuable time to read my post and for your beautiful comments.
Greetings,
Naturally, I see bullies as sadists who can never care about a person's feeling. The only thing that makes them happy is to see their victims being embarrassed and shamed. But to eliminate bullying, we need to raise awareness about self-confidence. Good luck on your post.
@whizzbro4eva, thank you so much for your valuable comments.