SEC-S15W2 | “Beware of Bullying”
INTRODUCTION
Second week engagement sounds so interesting in all the community, today I will join every one in participating in the STEEM INDONESIA community, with the topic "Beware of Bullying. BUT before I proceed I will love to invite my friends, @chant, @patjewell and @ngoenyi
Bullying is another Hell. You won't really know the person you can actually trust, and you won't know what will happen to you, and once Your are in constant fear of everything around you. It sucks.
During your life, have you ever received bullying? If so, in what form? physical, verbal or through cyber bullying. Provide your review?
When I was a child I did experience bullying mostly in the form of verbal and physical. This happened because I was very fair, so my friends will call me albino, this name they were calling me always provoke me into anger, at when ever I am looking somewhere, they will start laughing at me that my eyes are not straight.
Another thing was that, when ever I walking around the school with my friends and some how the teachers sees us and we try to escape, others will escape perfectly but myself even if I escape, the teachers will still fatch me out when I am in class and they will it use abusive words on me.
So this always makes me so sad, at times I will seat at one corner and cry.
So one day I developed confidence and anytime they attack me, I attack them , and movie ahead with my studies.
How do you equip your children to avoid bullying either at school or in their social environment.
Have sat my children down time to time and I told them to always report any form of bullying immediately to their teachers since they are in school and if they are at home they shouldn't fail to report every details to me.
Another thing I instill in them is that If it is just name-calling, they should respond back without keeping short, with that they bully will get tired and stop bothering them.
For them to avoid been bully, they should learn how to stay on their own, any body that they know that has the habit of bullying, they should try as much as possible and avoid the people.
Give your opinion on how to overcome bullying in form physical, verbal or through cyber bullying
Verbal bullying
For one to overcome verbal bullying is by responding to every single word they use on you, every time they push you so hard, make sure you respond back, by the time they see that they can't succeed, they will get tired. From there, they will stop bothering you and get another person to bully.
Physical bullying
In the aspect of overcoming physical bullying, the best thing is to involve force, you don't take laws into your hands, by the time they see that you are not alone that any mistake they will be arrested, honestly they bully will stop. No one wants to get into the police net, we all need freedom.
Cyber bullying
I know cyber bullying is not an easy one, there are times you try to avoid some negative comments or messages or gossip, but they will still coming, so cyber bullying occurs when you react emotionally as if you are the victim to to what they are saying about you.
For you to overcome this cyber bullying is stop responding to them, block every of their messages, chat and delete them off your phone, and eventually you see the bullying in physical, just avoid him.
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Wow thanks for sharing your personal experience with bullying it's really great that you were able to develop confidence and stand up for yourself and I do agree with the suggestion you give on how to equip children to avoid bullying.
And reporting any form of bullying immediately and teaching them how to respond to name calling can help stop the bullying... I must say I enjoyed reading your post wish you best of luck in the contest.
Hello ma, It is indeed crucial to address the issue of bullying, and your insights on how to overcome it are valuable. Encouraging children to report bullying incidents and equipping them with strategies to respond effectively can help create a safer environment. I remember when I was young, how I was bullied, but I never got the courage to tell anyone about it, if only I read this your post earlier🤭. Thank you for sharing your experiences and suggestions on this important topic!
Success on your entry.
Greetings dear friend, thank you very much for presenting us a beautiful post,
In general, if you are not a victim of bullying. By doing this you have to make yourself careful about kindness and gentleness. That we will be safe from bullying from teachers or any brothers.
Wishing you success and participation in this great competition, may God bless you Hafez,
Your post sheds light on the personal experience of bullying, offering a glimpse into the emotional toll it can take. It's commendable how you built resilience and confidence to face those challenges during your childhood. The advice you provide on equipping children to handle bullying is valuable—encouraging open communication and teaching them how to respond assertively. Your insights on overcoming different forms of bullying, be it verbal physical or cyber reflect a practical and level-headed approach. Your emphasis on not letting emotions fuel cyberbullying incidents is particularly wise. Keep raising awareness on this crucial issue🌟💙