SEC-S15W1 | Big desires and toughest challenges in 2024

in STEEM INDONESIA10 months ago (edited)

Hello my fellow steemian family in this wonderful Steem Indonesia community, I hope my entry is not too late I have been kind of busy but I couldn't have been left out because I have so much desires and challenges in this 2024, but I will just discuss two most difficult challenges I have. I still remain @kemsyluv.

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Name your 2 big desires that you will achieve or improve in 2024 and state the reasons for each

As we all know, desire is a strong feeling of wanting something that has not yet been accomplished and challenges are the odds which makes it difficult for us to achieve those desires.
Today am here to discuss the two most important Desires And Toughest Challenges in this 2024.

FIRST DESIRES

BUSINESS EXPANSION.
My first desire is to expand my small business (Kempire beauty salon)that I kicked started last year January 2023.
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I want to expand it by restructuring the face of the salon, and add more goods. This am sure will attract more customers and more money into my account, so that I will stop eating from hand to mouth (eating without savings)

SECOND DESIRE

MARRIAGE
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Though this might seem a bit personal but it one of the biggest challenges I have.
God in his infinite wisdom knew that it was not good for a man(male/female) to be a alone that was why he formed the first marriage between the first two human Adam and Eve. Genesis 2:18, 21-24.
It is one of my toughest desire because, it is a natural intuition or Desire imbedded in us right even before we were born. Nobody wants to grow old and die lonely. I had thought that last year will be the last year of me being single.

Also mention your challenges or difficulties in achieving these two things, and how do you solve it
challenges of expanding my business

Everything boils down to money. As we all know, the beauty of salon is in it sophisticated equipment, the painting design and the structuring. The following are the challenges faced in expanding my business.

-Capital to buy the right and quality products in wholesale in order to satisfy customers. This is one major challenge because if a customer visit and request for a particular product and it isn't in stuck or available, off the customer goes and may never returned.
-Getting high patronage and maintaining customers loyalty. Because of high rate of competition, (chances that there are other salon down the street) may make it difficult to maintain some customers, because some are very difficult to please.
-Keeping up with the trends, hiring qualify experts that can offer varieties of trending styles and services.

challenges of getting married

One of the challenges I am facing is...
-difficulty in attracting the right person who is trust worthy and ready to settle down. Most times a man will approach me, innocently I will open my heart, only to be disappointed. They are filled with deception and with intentions of just to have sex.
-Another challenge that has mired me to marry is because, I can't find a sincere man who share the same value/goals, lack or poor communication, difference in interesting and lifestyle, incompatibility, disrespecting boundaries and most times boredom (too busy when needed).

Among the 2 desires, which one is the most difficult for you to achieve? State your reasons.

Marriage is the most toughest one. This is hard because it has to do with two consenting individuals. In this part of our world (Africa), a lady of marriagable age can not just walked to a man she admires and proposed marriage. If that happens, she will be considered cheap and not taking serious even if the relationship eventually works. It will be a constant reminder that she was the one who asked the man out.
That's why this is more difficult because I have to wait and pray that one day a genuine, kind, loving and God fearing man will come my way and we will get married and have a happy/peaceful union.

In conclusion, there will always be challenges in life. But I have resolved to Maintaining a positive spirit and while waiting on God, I will focusing on the things I have control over. I am positive that one day my desires will be met.

I invite @ngoenyi, @bossj23, @patjewell and @abdullahw2 to participate in this contest if not already.

My Achievement 1 post
https://steemit.com/hive-172186/@kemsyluv/achievement-1-my-introduction-post-to-steemit-mentored-by-ngoenyi

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 10 months ago (edited)

Thank you for the invite. In deed, your desirs are tough and with the present situation of things, they look like the toughest. Business expansion truly needs cash to be able to meet up with the increasing cost of goods and services and to compete favourable.

The location of the business is also another thing to consider.

When it comes to marriage, though tough, but I believe that it is not too late. You can concentrate on building yourself up and try to shift your mind a little from that, then perhaps, the right person will come.

In all, the Almighty knows what you really need. Trust and reliance on him can help. He is waiting patiently to show you favor. And he will surely grant you the desired of your heart that are in line with his will for you.

Success in your entry

 10 months ago 

Your words are so suiting to my ear, you're very correct. I have come to realize that environment is one major determinants to business development. Definitely I will put relocating to a better place into consideration. As for marriage, I will put it in Jehovah hands. He knows what is good for me and am sure in due time he will perfect everything. I really miss you guys.

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 10 months ago 

Thank you so much Steemcurator. I am really grateful.

 10 months ago 

Saludos cordiales hermosa amiga kemsyluv , un gusto para mi saludarte y leer tu participación.

Una meta muy buena que hará crecer tu estabilidad económica, tiene que ver con la expansión de tu negocio, tu segundo sueño es muy bonito, deseas casarte este año.

Te deseo muchos éxitos, que tengas un feliz, productivo, bonito y bendecido día.

 10 months ago (edited)

If only I can understand you my friend.
How I wish steemit can introduce language translator.

 10 months ago 

Gracias

 10 months ago 

Aahan that's a great idea and desires to expand your business of salon and to get married this year. That both desires can definitely bring a lot of changes in your life as with business expansion you can earn more money and after getting married you will start a new beginning of your life. I hope you will achieve both of your desires this year. Best of luck 🤞

 10 months ago 

Thank you so much my friend. I know one day God in his infinite mercy will grant my heart desires. I am really working hard to expand my business. Thanks again for your prayers.

 10 months ago 

I enjoyed reading your post alot and all what you just said are very correct and good, Indeed nobody wants to die lonely.

I will advise you to always space your post properly by giving perfect paragraphs. Is bossj23 and not the one you spelt. The last guy you mentioned, username doesn't start with capital letter but small letter.

I wish you good luck and welcome to steemit as well, am a barber 👌🫶

 10 months ago 

Thank you so much for your observation. I will definitely correct it. Thank you for reading my post.

 10 months ago 

You are welcome.

 10 months ago 

Mungkin sebagian dari kita dapat dengan mudah mewujudkan setiap harapan, tapi ada juga yang tidak bisa mencapainya dengan mudah, saya senang anda mempunyai impian untuk membuka bisnis anda yaitu bisnis salon kecantikan supaya anda mendapatkan tabungan yang banyak.
Salah satu hal tersulit anda adalah menikah karena anda terlalu sering disakiti ketika anda sudah membuka hati.
Doa saya semoga anda mendapatkan pasangan hidup anda yang setia dan baik.

Salam kawan....

 10 months ago 

If only I could read and understand what you wrote. But I believe it words with good thought/wishes. Gracias mon ami

 10 months ago 

Keinginan anda di tahun ini sangat indah dan bagus saya harap anda bisa segera meraihnya tentunya dengan usaha dan upaya terbaik yang anda lakukan.

Smoga anda suksea di tantangan ini
Salam

 10 months ago 

Thank you so much my friend

 10 months ago 

My pleasure

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 10 months ago 

You know what?
All good things happen with time!
You might not get married tomorrow or next month, but if you pray about it the right person will come. I truly believe that.

As for expanding the shop, just do it little by little, and in a jiffy, you will be amazed with what you have accomplished.

I wish you all the best for your two desires.
PS: Thanks for the invite. I have already dropped mine.

 10 months ago 

Thank you so much ma'am for your well wishes. Amen to your prayers.

 10 months ago 

Pleasure! 🎕

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