Contest: Difficult to get married! Why?

Good day everyone, I am very delighted to participate in this very contest tagged difficult to get married why much thanks to the organiser @ridwant and the organizer for making this very contest a success.

Marriage here being a union between a man and woman to be together forever and raise their own offspring. Marriage here is not just a mere relationship between a man and woman but it displays more about forgiveness, love, trust, commitment and togetherness. I will love to use the content hints to talk more about the difficulty people faced in marriage and why?.

What causes men or women to feel reluctant to marry?

There are so many reasons people feel reluctant to marry most are not known but I will like to suggest the reasons why men and women feel reluctant to marry from a normal occurrences and seen around my locality and society .

❤️Family upbringing and traumatic
experiences: in most homes children observe abuses amongst their parent and wish not to experience such when they get married. So that alone can make men and women feel reluctant to marry. Most children aren't showered love they all desired while growing into adulthood.

❤️ Being more focused on other things like career, School and long term projects: Most people feel they don't have time to love and be loved just focusing more on thier career till they lose interest in marriage. Most things people set as thier priorities are being considered as their love.

❤️ Mental illness: most people with mental illness don't see marriage as thier main priority because they seem hard communication eventhough they communicate it will be mainly of aggressions.

What's the importance of marrying

There are so many benefits men and women derived from marrying which are:

❣️Brings joy and makes one happy: I see joy and happiness mostly on married people faces so I think it comes mainly when you get married. Loneliness is the worst disease that can happen to anyone it can kill just like other diseases, it's advisable to find a partner to make one happy, break boredom and share ideas.

❤️Child bearing: children are gifts from the lord which comes into existence when both partners agree to come together. So marriage serves as an important platform to help reproduce new ones.
❤️Keeps both partners sane: marriage helps to bring souls together preventing boredom and loneliness among them. So marriage helps bring people together to share thier ideas and love happy.

What are the risks for men and women if they don't get married?

There are so many risks men and women encounter If they don't get married which are:

❤️Unmarried ones seems to be aggressive and abusive, acting so weird because they don't have anyone to show love to.
❤️ Having an offspring is an essential thing in my country, carrying one name is a great thing to show continuation. So marriage makes it available for that.
❤️It does not brings unity in anywhere amongst people so being in a union helps alot.
❤️There are blessings attached to it, so I think staying without marrying is staying without such blessings.

Thank you for going through my post 😍❤️
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