Back then, I usually feel bad anytime I fail or when my plans do not work out but I have now learnt to calm down since that is not the end of life. I now believe that when something or a plan fails, it is just like an opportunity for me to go harder.
I will make more plans until I get what I want. It is sometimes funny that I may even get beyond that thing I have always wanted. This happened to me recently and it has given me more opportunity to thank God and also to realize that a failed plan is not the end of life