SEC17/W2| While making decisions, what do you prefer to follow: heart or mind?
Hello my dear Steemians,
Today I wanted to invite you to this challenge by Incredible India Community:
Making decision follow your heart or mind? |
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Every day we make decision, there are small and big, simple and important. Often we do not think about them and just do it automatically at our subconscious level, do you want examples:
- what to take for breakfast: tea or coffee?
For me, if I have an operation day and need to perform surgeries then I decide to take coffee because it gives me energy and concentration. I drink coffee with some milk and add a little of sugar, I do not know if that makes any difference but i have a feeling that I have some sugar which is also an energy
But if I do not have surgeries then I am quite happy to have tea
This decision I am doing with my mind just assessing what is better for me to get through my working day.
- There could be other case when I want so much to visit a holiday destination very much and that I was planning for a long time, but then it is like in real life my heating would break and I need to buy a new heating with installation that would cost the same like my trip. I definitely will do without trip but will have warm house.
I think, in general I am a person who follows a mind majority of cases but only if there is something that is related to my close family then, of course, there is even nothing to think about I will follow my heart.
In our life we have to make many different decision, sometimes it is hard but necessary and at the end the outcome is beneficial for us. That is something that we have to teach our children, the things that is important and needs to be done. We should explain our children that often it is hard and sounds not really great and maybe even boring to do something but in future it will be good. I can imagine that children will not be happy that time and you might have a kid who maybe will not speak to you for a day or so because of such strict parent but they all will learn on such lessons that everything was for their best.
I would like to invite @davidad, @senehasa, @fadlymatch for this challenge
It is quite interesting to see that we both share the same view and perspective when it comes to decision making I must actually say and it is quite needed. We need to make wise and strategic decisions for our lives so that we will not end up in the wrong path of life instead of the right path of life. That is actually what I strongly believe in and which you have actually pointed out vividly also.
We are all products of our decisions and our decisions will determine who we are. Some use the mind, some use their heart and some use their brain and any other form. I guess the most important thing is when we make wise decisions and not only mind what we use to make those rights decisions because at the end of the day, what we are actually looking for is to make wise and strategic decisions that will bring positive result to our lifes.
Just like you pointed out. That actually means it differs, there are actually instances that we make use of our minds to make decisions and there are also instances where we make use of our heart to make decisions. I really think all still point down to that present situation when making situations actually or what do you think about it?. Thank you once again for sharing quite a very quality and informative post. So much I was able to learn from it I must confess.
Thank you for reading, our decision may differ from various conditions in one situation we may need to listen to our heart and in other to our brain :)
You are perfectly right. Our decision may differ based on the condition and the situations that surround it. But whether we use the heart or the mind, the most important thing I strongly believe is that we should just make right decisions
It's interesting to know you make decision using your mind, to me I feel this topic to be very thought provoking, reason is because I didn't really used to note the difference between the heart and mind when it comes to emotion. I honestly do not know where I would fall into , it's an interesting topic indeed, but I think you have said your way of dealing with decision making, for me I need to come back home and think more deeply to decipher on this. Weldone for putting in your best on the challenge. Success
It is often, we do things automatically without realising and both our brain and our mind do. Either it could be good for us and maybe not. I think we need to learn to find the golden middle for us and that will hopefully make it easy to make good decisions.
Thank you very much @stef1 for your voting support on my comment, I appreciate your input in the Challenge and your support.👋👋
Quite interesting to engage with your content. Like you mentioned, we make decisions everyday, big and small, simple and unimportant. It's important we make appropriate decisions using our mind, such decisions are quite beneficial. And some situations warrant using our heart or both mind and heart to arrive at a favourable choice.
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for reading and it is also nice to know that everything depends on situation but also in different situation one is better than the other :)
My line of action is as follows, if I want to feel good immediately I follow my heart, if I want to feel good in the long term I follow my mind
That is the best, I think there is no strict rules to do one of another way, often there is also a sixth sense that can guide us :)
Hola querida amiga @stef1
Para hacer una persona de ciencia es más que obvio que tienes que seguir a tu conciencia y a tus pensamientos y sobre todo si tienes que hacer cirugías y operar Pero no hay nada mejor que tomarse un buen café antes de eso.
Me encantó estás palabras son como un bálsamo para las demás personas que por una u otra circunstancias tenemos que tomar decisiones y las hacemos con el corazón, a mi en particular me debilita.
Ame tu publicación muy hermosa.
Espero tengas mucha suerte y éxitos en el devenir del concurso y te deseo bendiciones a manos llenas.
I love my coffee in the morning although on holiday I enjoy better some good tea too.
I am also pleased that you supporting my approach in regards to teaching our children, there are many thins they have to learn but also we learn from the situation too.
It was a pleasure to read your nice comment :)
ম্যাম, আমি ও আপনার সাথে একমত। কারণ হলো আমাদের গুরুজন বা প্রিয়জনরা যদি কোন বিষয়ে সিদ্ধান্ত নিয়ে থাকেন ,তা আমাদের মনে প্রানে গ্রহণ করা উচিত ।এর কারণ হলো তারা আমাদের কল্যাণের জন্য , সঠিক সময় সঠিক সিদ্ধান্ত নিয়ে থাকেন। খুব ভালো লাগলো
আপনার লেখা পড়ে । এত সুন্দর একটি লেখা আমাদের উপহার দেওয়ার জন্য অসংখ্য ধন্যবাদ আপনাকে। ভালো থাকবেন ম্যাম।
Thank you for reading and for sharing my thoughts, the older we are the more experienced we will be and that is what we will be giving to our children.
¡Holaaa amiga!🤗
He notado que hay decisiones donde se nos hace más fácil decidir con el corazón o la mente pero, también hay ciurcunstancias en las que, a pesar de saber que debemos apoyarnos de ambas, decidimos con mucha naturalidad por lo tanto, en circunstancias así es donde me doy cuenta de que, independientemente de saber que se debe decidir usando ambas modalidades, la complejidad no dejará de existir y, hasta eso es interesante.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚
Thank you for your nice comment, I think we can rely on our heart but our mind should double check if it is still a good decision, it is like angel on one shoulder and devil on other shoulder, my grandma made such comparison.
Hello, friend My computer is now out of order, and there is no means to fix it because Sri Lankans are on long holidays owing to the Sinhala and Tamil new year. When I work few times on my computer, the keyboard goes out. I am unable to type due to a running cursor, so please excuse me for not commenting on some of your entries.
ম্যাম আপনাকে অসংখ্য ধন্যবাদ প্রতিযোগীতায় অংশ নেয়ার জন্য।আপনি সিদ্ধান্ত গ্রহনের ক্ষেত্রে মন এবং হৃদয় দুটিরই ব্যবহার করে থাকেন। যখন যেটির দরকার হয় তখন সেটি ব্যবহার করেন। পরিস্থিতি অনুযায়ী সিদ্ধান্ত গ্রহন করাকে আপনি সবথেকে বেশি পছন্দ করেন।
আপনি আরো বলেছেন বাচ্চাদের এমন কিছু শেখাতে হবে যা তাদের জন্য গুরুত্বপূর্ণ। তারা যতই বিরক্ত হোক না কেন একসময় গিয়ে তারা এর মর্ম ও গুরুত্ব উপলব্ধি করতে সক্ষম হবে।
ভালো থাকবেন ম্যাম। প্রতিযোগীতায় আপনার সাফল্য কামনা করছি।