Steemit friends, how are you all? Hope you are all well by the grace of Allah. I am also fine by the grace of Allah. Today, I will participate in the new contest from Incredible India brought by the Honorable ADMIN @sduttaskitchen. The name of the contest is "Incredible India contest by @sduttaskitchen|The things I follow to rejuvenate myself." Thank you Incredible India for bringing the contest to us.

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In our family, mood plays a very important role in maintaining good relations with everyone in the society. If you are in a good mood, it is easy to make good relations with everyone. And if you are in a bad mood, good words will also be bad. Then you will not like anyone's words. Must do well.

There are several steps we can take to improve our mood. Here are some of them: -

• First of all, I have to fix my mind so that I cannot get angry under any circumstances.
• One should stay away from those events that are likely to cause anger.
• Interest in meditation should be developed. Anger can be controlled easily due to meditation.
• Be patient.

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• One has to concentrate one's mind elsewhere. One has to consider the situation with a tolerant attitude.
• Anger can be controlled through these methods.
  

• I don't lie to myself. I can't control myself when someone lies.
• I lose my temper when I see someone using excessively harsh language.
• I lose my temper when I see him misbehaving with small children.
• I can't control myself when I see someone getting angry.
• The elders should be given the respect they deserve. I can't control myself when I see that they are not getting their honors.
• I don't like anti-social behavior. Seeing someone behaving anti-socially makes me feel bad.

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• Cleanliness is a part of faith. If you see someone in an unclean state, you lose your temper.
• While talking, you have to speak with modesty. If you see someone talking rudely, you lose your temper.
• Not doing the right thing at the right time leads to a bad mood.
• After doing something hard, if you don't get the reward, the mood becomes bad.
  

Just as I try to control my temper, I also advise my children to control their temper. My daughter is 13 years old. I always advise her to control her anger. If he is angry for some reason, I try to listen to him first. I listen attentively to the reason for his anger. I try to agree with his words. By doing this, his anger decreased a lot by getting my support.

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Then I try to explain to him how to solve the problem without getting angry in this situation. I try to highlight the harmful aspects of getting angry in front of her. In general, I always give training to my daughter on how to handle herself and deal with the situation in different situations.

Temper has to be controlled at all times. People who lose their temper cannot bring success to any work. So, for our success, for the happiness of the family, for the good of society above all we have to stop losing our temper for a better life.