Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do or do not (choose anyone) believe marriages are made in heaven.

Hello all steemian friends
Greetings from me to everyone who reads my post this time, and this time I will write a contest Steemit Engagement Challenge season 10 week 3, the theme I will raise is **Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? ** created by Incredible India community from @meraindia account, with some questions asked:

I believe that marriages are made in heaven because according to my belief heaven is a place for them to receive rewards in the hereafter if they do good while in the world then their reward will be heaven and there are marriages made in heaven and for marriages in my belief marriages are made between men and women because it has been destined by God for them to carry out a sacred bond and usually marriages are carried out in mosques, religious affairs offices or at the home of the prospective woman with conditions that are late determined by religion and the state

I prefer marriage to be loved because if we are loved by someone it is better than loving especially in marriage we need someone with the same frequency as us because married life is long even though at first we may not love but over time love can grow by itself if someone's behavior is good and being loved we can avoid feeling too deep disappointed because many people who love are disappointed in someone if they know that person is normal with us. When we are loved by someone, it will make us feel more at ease and we don't need to do this and that without us asking him to do the same thing and treat us better and in maintaining a closer relationship, especially when we are married, we have to be friends to fight together.

In my opinion, the definition of a happy married life is where families support one another, are honest with their partners and respect each other and become women who are not too fussy and can make our partners feel calm even though in the household uniting two people is very difficult in understand each other and be able to accept all the shortcomings of a partner because no human is perfect if we look for perfect then we will never find it and also so that a happy family is realized with a good husband (shalih) and a pious wife who is not too disobedient

The reason behind increasing mental distance and separation is that with increasing mental distance is to be honest with each other so that mental distance increases and being honest with each other so that partners trust us more in order to have a strong relationship.

so for my contest post this time thank you for everything, in this case I invite my friends @hotspotitaly,@anroja ,@radjasalman and @irawandedy to participate here, thanks for everything.