Today I join this fourth week of the great challenges of this platform, I want to begin my participation in this wonderful community where issues of perception, spirituality, behavior and others related to the good and not so good that we experience daily are being addressed. Here my participation.

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Share your statements about a proverb-"It's good to be bad."

It really shouldn't be like that, but nowadays people are very banal and superficial and see kindness in others as a weakness or defect. Being good is not bad, but you also don't have to be too good, or too extreme towards bad things.

It is a proverb that has applied a lot to humanity for years, to be good is to have a good heart, to have empathy and values ​​that others do not want or are afraid to do.In our daily lives we see how being good to the wrong people is being bad, since they abuse our benevolence.

We ourselves must realize when we have been victims of people who abuse our kindness, benevolence and charity, we should not be good to those who are not good citizens, that gives them the advantage over those who are good and abuse. It's a pity that not all humans do not have a lot of kindness that is needed these days.

Do you think sometimes we need to be a bit harsh if it is for our loved ones' betterment? Justify your point.

Yes, I'm not opposed to that...you have to have a little toughness and more in these times. We must not confuse discipline with a little rudeness, the latter makes us be realistic and not let others abuse our value such as kindness, unfortunately we have to be selective.

We must be realistic with our relatives, it is no longer worth fantasizing when there is a world outside that exploits and abuses the good, so we must be disciplined and not always allow ourselves to be exposed to humiliation.

It is simply being smarter than those abusers and without violence or bad words we can assert ourselves and continue doing our acts of kindness and be good citizens and children. This will be reflected by the education that our parents have given us.

Have you ever been bad for others for their betterment? Share if there any incident you have.

When many situations have happened to you in life for doing good, there comes a time when you want to shield yourself and protect yourself from those types of people and your loved ones too. So, sometimes you have to be somewhat rude or direct but not mean, be careful! This should not be confused since I have seen people doing very bad things that I would never do.

With my children I have to have a bit of a strong hand, but I have not taught them anything cruel like some neighbors we see, but neither should they allow themselves to be subjected or be a victim of abuse just for being good people. A balance is ideal between good and bad. Life is like that, that's why it's necessary to know ourselves well and be selective so that we don't get hurt and disappointed. But we are human and it is easy to make mistakes, but that teaches you and strengthens you.

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In conclusion we can say that in life we ​​must have a balance that helps us know how to be good people, life will surprise us.

I invite my Steemians @chasad75, @chant, @alegnita and @emily8 friends to participate in this challenge of this great community. Keep it up!!! See you next post friends.