Why does the other party no longer love you? Because you made your world the size of a home

Many people regard a woman's graduation, love, marriage, and childbirth as a complete process that basically completes the major events in life.

But many times, with a baby, when marriage enters a dull period, it is the real test of life.

It's like a fairy tale. The ending will always stay at the romantic wedding of the prince and the princess. There is only one sentence left for the two to live a happy life.

Sarah has been depressed during this period. She felt that her marriage had a crisis, but she didn't know where the crisis came from. Some time ago, she guessed whether her husband had cheated.

Just as Sarah was worried about her family and was puzzled, her best friend called to ask her for dinner. She had always refused, but she suddenly decided to participate.

When I arrived at the restaurant, I discovered that in addition to my girlfriends, there were also a few acquaintances.

From the moment when my best friend saw Sarah, she was eager to talk.

Because the best friend also knows her husband, and her husband and her husband even have contacts at work. As soon as he saw his girlfriend's face, Sarah's heart sank.

During the whole meal, Sarah was uneasy. She didn't know the meaning of her girlfriend's hesitation and cessation.

After finally getting through the meal, Sarah and his girlfriends changed places to drink tea. Then Sarah asked, "Are you going to tell me that my husband cheated?"

"What are you talking about? Your husband cheated?" asked my girlfriend in shock.

Kobayashi breathed a sigh of relief: "At first it looked like you had something to say, thinking that your husband said something to you."

"No, your husband is so honest, how could he cheat? You must be thinking too much. What I just wanted to say is, why did you come out like this?"

Sarah took a look at his clothes. They were wearing the clothes he bought the year before. At that time, because he was going to bring the children at home, he bought them in black that was not dirty. Now it seems that they have been washed white.

The girlfriend picked up another strand of her already oily hair, curled her lips, looked at her completely unmodified face, and sighed.

Sarah quickly explained that he had to make breakfast in the morning, take care of the children, send the children to kindergarten, and when he got home, he would have to clean and wash clothes. He was so busy that he didn't have time to clean up.

After explaining, I talked to my girlfriends about the issues I had been worrying about during this period.

Originally, Sarah and her husband loved each other very much. Later, with a baby, both parents were not in the local area and could not help. In desperation, Sarah could only be a full-time mother. This is what it is now.

I thought that when the baby went to kindergarten, he would be able to return to the workplace. But when the child came back early, all the full-time work and off-duty hours could not meet the conditions for picking up the child. Finally, several units met the time, that is, the salary was lower. However, I disliked Sarah and had no work experience for several years.

Looking for a job to no avail, Sarah had to continue to be a full-time mother.

But gradually, she found that her husband became more and more indifferent to her. After work, in addition to playing with the children for a while, she played on her mobile phone or read a book by herself. She hadn't even touched her for two months.

Sometimes she wanted to talk to her husband, often without saying a few words, her husband yawned.

Sarah wants his girlfriend to help analyze and analyze what went wrong, and whether her husband has another woman outside.

My girlfriend looked at her and told her that she didn't need to analyze at all, and based on Sarah's husband's character, she would definitely not cheat. The problem still lies with her.

My best friend said that now in Sarah's body, there is no shadow of what he used to be. That beautiful and cute Sarah is now a "yellow-faced woman" who can only spin around at home.

People are visual animals. I looked at the gorgeous girls outside, and when I went home, I saw my wife wearing white-washed and fat clothes. There were even a few pools of children's saliva marks, greasy hair, and undecorated faces. Under this contrast, how can there be any interest?

The two chatted, and they all talked about what they ate today, what the child ate, how many times the child cried, and how long did the housework last. Which man can listen to his wife talking about the same topic every day?

My best friend gave Sarah a few more examples of the stories of her friends. After Sarah listened, she looked at her clothes again, thoughtfully.

After returning home, Sarah made a clear plan for himself, bought decent clothes, reported the flower arrangement course that he had always wanted to learn, and set a time to go to the gym every day.

Every morning, after delivering the baby, her personal time begins.

Because of his talent, after a period of time, Sarah's flower arrangement made a small difference. Every time he posted a photo on the platform, many people left a message saying that he liked it, and some even asked if he could learn from Sarah.

Soon after, Sarah also found a job with a small salary but a very casual time.

At dinner every day, I talked to my husband about fun and annoying things at work, and the two exchanged more.

However, Sarah felt that in addition to the restoration of the relationship with her husband, she had obtained more precious things, and her life seemed to have color.