Get Lost!
They are mean, little monsters, and I always wonder what the parents look like.
Indeed some are not different from their children and the attitude of teachers is There's nothing we can do to change this behaviour. Some parents believe their child is an angel without investigating what type of child they put in this world. Are children angels? No, they are not. I saw too many to say they are all innocents and it also cannot be said the parents can always be blamed for the bad behaviour.
Teachers play a role too, I've been there where a teacher set up an entire class against one pupil (interesting word pupil). As I thought about what happened I understood that children copy a teacher's behaviour easily because they want to be liked.
Primary school students aren't the only bullies. You find them at secondary school, university and wherever you go. Yes, even in hospitals medical students and doctors behave like 8-years-old and bully students and coworkers. If it comes to those people I wonder I those with a lack of empathy shouldn't be kicked out of the university. A person without empathy, a certain built-in feeling to do the right thing, with patience and time to listen and read between the lines shouldn't be allowed to work with people. This counts for all teachers, doctors, nurses, caretakers and no matter the modern time we are living in one thing is for sure: most of those being in charge are bullies of the worst kind. Humanity? It's a big joke and it's no miracle to me that more and more students feel overwhelmed, lonely, depressed and are getting lost among the introverts and sickening bullies operating in groups.
Without any doubt you will say that you had a great time all those years of your life you spent at school.
Did you or are you one of those pretenders willing to lie to make your life less pathetic because you don't want anyone to think you are like that loser who couldn't take the bullying any longer the teachers ignored and jumped in front of a train after being ignored for three years. The last words he heard "Get Lost!" did it and echoed through his head before the train smashed it.
28.9.2024
@mercybliss @nurazizahh @oniza12 @yeniza have you been bullied are you the bully? What about you @sahar78? How is your student life right now?
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This is an excellent post with title "Get lost" written by you @wakeupkitty.pal....
I totally agree with you that not everyone is perfect here so similarly you cannot say that if someone is at primary school level then he or she is an innocent children always because we cannot give guarantee of anyone and I think if someone is bully then it is all because of environment in which that person is living and people which are surrounding that person..
In my case I have bullied several times at my primary and secondary level 2 and even in my University verbally but I think the beauty that is in truth and simplicity is not present in being a liar even if in that lie you have your profit also so I always behave in that conditions by being very neutral and by ignoring the situation because I think because of these bully and shitty behaviour of your surrounding people you should not forget your actual goals for which you are struggling.....
I am very happy that you invited me in your post and you liked to know about my personal student life....
A good writing
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Hi dear, it's good to see you. They say the life of a child is easy but if look at my own childhood and those of my my children today I don't think so. I can only say that the older I and my children get the more easier life is. I believe once older at least teachers will more respect a student and it will be harder for them to bully.
I do wonder about the schoolmates though. Will their behaviour be corrected or do they get away with it because we all try to ignore their behaviour?
I wish you a good weekend far away from nasty people. It will be hard to focus on a goal if one's life is made miserable.
I agree with your point of view that if we see in past in our school life then we see that there is a major difference that time children and todays generation in their behaviour....
I totally agree with you that if we all will try to ignore that bully behaviour of children then definitely we cannot make corrections in it that's why there is a need of making some corrections in such behaviours...
I agree that we can do one thing if we want to achieve our goal that we can ignore such kind of people that make our life miserable and second thing is that we can made corrections of that people which is more good option and in this way we can achieve our goals.....
I also wish you a very happy and good weekend....
It was a weekend filled with Steemit struggles but I survived. Only a few reports to go. Let's hope there's some Steemit access that would be great.
If it comes to "Get Lost!" it feels as if it is the week of cheating, bulkying and drama.
I just wrote this
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I hope it helps you and if you like you can join the contest too.
A good start of the week and let's spread some smiles.
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It is truth such problem starting from young ages is very bad and can destroy the psychology of a child. I believe even though we know understand that we better to concentrate on something more important but our mind will come back again and again to that issue.
Cerita yang sangat bagus. Hidup memang tidak sempurna. Tp hidup ini adalah sebuah kesempatan. Kesempatan membawanya pada hal yang lebih bermanfaat.. Disekolah kami banyak menemukan siswa dengan berbagai macam karakter antara individu satu dengan lainnya. Dan tidak mudah memang menghadapi itu semua. Tp mereka amanah dan semampu kami mencoba membawa pada dunia yang penuh warna dan bisa menggunakan kesempatan untuk bisa menjadi manusia yang bermanfaat. Jika kedepannya mereka tidak bisa mempergunakan kesempatan yang ada berarti itulah pilihan hidup mereka. Dan tentunya kami sudah berusaha.
It is not about different character but about behaviour and lack of norms and failures. Not only if it comes to students but also if not more to the teachers, schoolboard and everyone involved with the schoolsystem.
The sad fact is that victims remain victims and are told to ignore or go somewhere else. Why not wash the ears of violent pupils? By the way I still wait for bullies to show up and explain their behaviour. If 50% if not 70% is bullied or harmed in a serious way a bully is in our vision (not mine I am single and stay home).
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Tidak selalu menjadi pilihan sendiri jika tidak mampu memanfaatkan peluang. Selama Anda bergantung pada orang lain, hidup di bawah atap mereka, Anda harus patuh dan melakukan apa yang diperintahkan. Juga tidak semua orang memiliki kesempatan. Itu adalah apa yang ingin kita percayai tetapi kenyataannya adalah cerita yang berbeda.
Terima kasih atas komentar Anda. Jika Anda dapat menyatakan bahwa semua siswa baik dan dapat dipercaya, itu lebih baik daripada apa yang kami hadapi di sini.
It is indeed one of the important about children, for their healthy development. It is unfortunate, but every class in schools likely to face such situations when one of the pupils would be chosen as outsider and will be bullied. It is also unfortunate that some kids even if they are not supporting this idea but they will not speak up because they do not want to become a target of such situation.
I am glad to say that I was not bullied and also I did not bully anyone but I was witness of it and that time I was too young to do anything, I think now I definitely will be behaving differently.
Good writing :)
Too young 🤔 there are 2 year old fighting backand defending others,it's partly charactor or nature to do so but this is also the age children are forced to behave,fit in, socialize, stay out of trouble and every part of instinct is crushed and labelled as wrong, unacceptable with the result we fear, watch, freeze, look the other way, walk out or join the bully's club.
Interesting is that since we talk about being bullied and discriminated it only became worse and everything is labelled as such.
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Yes, now it is easy to reassess and analyse, but then when you see such situation for the first time and it was not a physical bullying but just usually girls do, tease and laugh and avoid contact. There is always a way forward in the case in my school it was that mother took the girl to other school and relatively early, later on we heard that she found good friends there.
It is and will always be such situation of socialising and if the group of people chosen someone then no matter what you do to get adopted in the group there is no chance, the best is to change the place and start from beginning as early as possible. I believe the parents need to be more proactive and get involved so that the child would have an adviser and supporter who is ready to listen and help.
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This is actually shocking but let’s say is on a rare occasion you see such occurrences.
For me, I will always blame the parent because teachers, to a large extent have restrictions to kids under their care. They can only try their best to build moral but the full responsibility lies with the parents since they are the primary point of contact, that kids see everyday.
Bullying is now a rampant thing in our educational system today and this people never operate alone, they always come in groups. This is one of the reasons, cultism has increased in our Nigeria institute because if a group bullies one person…. He joins another strong group, in order to retaliate and you see all manner of killings all over the university between rival gangs…. The worse part is that this killings go as far as entering the streets of the city..
This is all because of bullying!!
Welk, shocking to me is that this seems to be normal. I had to transfer my children more than 5 times if not 6 and we even had to find a school abroad! I have had many foster children all bullied and many into deatg. The parents? Thank you for telling me that.
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