"SEC S11W1: Challenging Your Beliefs about Motherhood and Fatherhood"

After the end of season ten we reached engagement season eleven. Now I am going to participate in the engagement challenge of week one of season 11. Thanks and appreciation to the Columbia Original community for providing such a beautiful contest topic. The topic of Week One's contest is "Beliefs about Motherhood and Fatherhood". Let's start with the details.

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Do you think a man or a woman is incomplete if they are not a father or a mother? Why?

I come back to the main point. If a woman and a man do not want to become parents, then the number of people on earth will decrease in the future. They will not be able to enjoy the full taste of their life suffering love and love with children. I think their birth will be in vain if they don't want to be parents. If a man and woman do not want to go about parenting then they will lose their future generation and destroy kinship harmony and sociality. I think that after being born on earth, the way our first generations of people lived and gave birth, we give birth and live together as men and women. Leaving aside everything since birth, if you become an adult, then you must give birth and leave your existence in the world, that is the meaning of life. Because you will definitely die after a few days. When you are not on earth you have to be a parent and give birth to fulfill your imperfection.

Do you think a parent should put aside their goals or dreams for their children? Explain your answer.

Yes of course I think for children parents to keep their dreams behind. When a parent's child is born, I think their dreams begin to diminish from that day. All dreams and love, affection and life become the main purpose of their children. In fact, it is not necessary to leave behind the dreams of the parents. They look at the child's face and look at the child's future. Then the parents dream again and again how to establish their children and bring them up in good education.

What is your view of people who choose not to have children?

If a person does not have children due to Karo, he will understand this pain and will be able to appreciate it more. But I want to say that those who do not adopt children even if they have the power and are unwilling to adopt children, their lives are in vain. Their lives have no value. Moreover, I can consider those who are unwilling to have children as mental patients. They just celebrate their lives and move with their emotions. How important children are to a parent or a woman or a man is truly indescribable. A child of a father and mother not only brings good fortune to his parents but can also bring good fortune to the family and society. Think about one thing, if today's great scientists like Newton Aristotle and many others who have made great discoveries, if their parents had thought that we would not adopt children, then the state of our world would not have changed. Only our next generation can carry us forward in this age of great innovation and discovery and change.

What is your view of people who choose not to have children?

Millions of years ago, when there was no human living on earth, Allah Almighty planned the creation of mankind and sent mankind to earth. The human race has been destroyed many times on earth because of their wickedness. Allah created both men and women. When Hazrat Adam (Alaihis Salam) was created from clay, Adam (Alaihis Salam) said, "I feel lonely, so this plea was accepted by Allah and Hawa (Alaihis Salam) was created and married to Adam (Alaihis Salam). They were our first parents and the first men and women. It is from them that mankind is created so a man cannot spend his life alone and on the other hand a woman cannot spend her life alone. It is mixed in our souls through not being able to feel the same other.

Currently every human being belongs to society or country. We live in economic social and national sovereignty. Here's everything we need to know about parenting. But our mindset on giving birth is decreasing day by day. I think there are or may be any kind of obstacles or problems for us to give birth at present.

Regardless of your economic status, you still have to give birth to children because Allah, the owner of sustenance on earth, has taken the responsibility of feeding and teaching. Social physical and mental thinking consciousness must keep you right and you must possess sound mind. If you are not of sound mind, if your mental health is not good then you may not be able to be a parent. Of course financial social and mental health a parent must have to be a good parent.