Wow! Every line of your participation is so amazing, motherhood or fatherhood is a choice, so it does not make us incomplete. What makes us complete is ourselves. But on the other hand, I think family is also very important to keep our lineage or descendants on earth existing even after our departure.

As you clearly said proper planning will not make our children become a distraction to our goals, children are additional tasks and responsibilities, we work to see their future bright but they should not be distract our dreams and goals.

_{Moreover, the parent's goals will be of an added advantage to the children because it will help them to provide and cater to the children's well-being, but if they decide to set aside their goal they won't have the resources to train the children or set an example for them to follow.}

To me, the ideal condition is to be mature in mind and have resources to carter for the family and you have clearly explained, thank you for sharing this amazing participation dear friend, and wish to best of luck.