Psychology: These three kinds of women, no matter how old they are, men will rush to pursue them

In ordinary life, most of us have the idea that when we marry a wife, we should marry a young and beautiful woman, rather than marry the older "leftover women".

In fact, such thoughts are human nature after all. Because a man pursues a woman, he still wants to be able to pass on from generation to generation, instead of affecting his physiology and family.

However, if there is a normal state in everything, there will definitely be an abnormal state.

Compared with older leftover women, the biggest difference between young women and older leftover women is the difference in "age". And if it is better than other aspects, such as experience and ability, the latter is better.

I once met a woman. She is the "goddess" in the unit. She is not only strong in work ability, but also has high emotional intelligence, good conversation and temperament, so she has attracted a large number of suitors.

But she is a member of the late marriage family and does not want to get married too early, so now in her thirties, she would rather go further and further on the road of "golden leftover women" and have no desire to get married.

However, even though she is more than 30 years old, it has not affected her "popular" rate, and there are still many men chasing her.

One man said that, instead of finding someone who doesn't understand anything, it's better to find someone evenly matched. In this way, there is a sense of freshness and the balance of the marriage can be maintained.

Between feelings and feelings, the choice is not only based on "young". In many cases, some women can take advantage of other aspects to completely make up for their "age" defects, making them more feminine as they live.

An independent thinking and self-confident woman can often attract men’s attention

Yang Lan once said: "Women still have to be proud."

A woman, if she relies too much on men and lives too humble, then this man will eventually feel bored and does not want to maintain this relationship anymore.

To put it bluntly, if a woman is not confident enough and does not have an inner aura, men will eventually feel boring and cannot bring them a sense of satisfaction.

You know, the easier to get something, the less challenging it is.

Just like those younger women, their advantage is that they are young enough. And a woman, if she only relies on "youth", then her life will not last long after all.

On the contrary, a woman with independent thinking and windy walks, their self-confidence can often attract men's attention, whether they are leftover women or not, they can make men fall in love.

Because the more confident a woman is, the less easily it can be obtained. Everything that is not available is the most "tossed and turned".

For a relationship, or a marriage, if you want a balance, then both parties must be confident enough and independent enough to support each other in times of trouble and be alone in daily life. This is the best way to get along.

Connotative and attractive women can often evoke a man’s sense of possession

Someone once said: "A woman, she is like a pot of wine, the more brewed, the more mellow, and the more you brew, the more delicious you will feel."

Sometimes, we often say that young women are often less feminine than older women. Why?

"Femininity" is a manifestation of feminine charm and connotation. When she is good enough and noble enough, men tend to be passionate about this woman, and will not like women who have no meaning.

The connotation of a woman is not born, nor can it be changed by just dressing up.

You have to know that some women can wear the street stalls as famous brands, while some women can only wear the famous brands as street stalls.

Such contradictions and comparisons make us understand that if a woman is not dressed up, it actually has little effect. The most important thing is that her own charm is amazing enough, her connotation is deep enough, and her character is outstanding enough.

A writer once wrote: “What a woman fights to the end is not her beauty and figure, but her talent and connotation.”

A woman with no connotation is like a cup of sugar water, even if you drink it, there is only a momentary pleasure. And women with connotation, they are like a cup of tea, no matter how you taste it, they have a different taste.

Women who go to the hall and the kitchen are often ideal objects for men

In Chinese society, when we evaluate a woman, we usually use the standard of "going to the hall and going to the kitchen" to judge.

What is "go to the hall, go to the kitchen"? That is, this woman can be on the stage, has enough ability and talent, can hold others down, and can return to the normal life full of smoke and fire, and take care of the family.

Such a woman is the "ideal" object in every man's heart.

For such a woman, men tend to pursue them willingly, regardless of the other's age.

You know, behind a successful man, after all, there must be a "viable" woman to support him. Because a person wants to succeed, he cannot rely on himself alone, and he needs a comrade-in-arms who can "hold up half the sky".

Think about it, when a man is in trouble, his wife can come forward to solve his problems and overcome difficulties with him. Who doesn't like such a wise woman?

It's not that those "Jiao Didi" women are not good, but that in many cases, men always like women who are more "able to do things."

Innocent women think, "I make money to support my family, you are beautiful and beautiful" is the best promise of a man. As everyone knows, in the eyes of experienced women, this is nothing but a "lie".

They know that if you don't have the ability and strength, then when you are old and declining, the first person to be abandoned is you.

And if you have the ability to firmly control a man, then this man will only put his heart on you, will not leave, and dare not leave.

Therefore, women not only look at age, but also look at connotation and wisdom.