FAIL IN LOVE

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Honey, don't give up just yet.

It's not the time to give up just because love doesn't come just to you.

You are never love incompetent, you are not a patient with an innate love deficiency, and you are not an outcast from a love competition.

You just fail in love.

And all failure happens because you don't know how to make it happen.

If you really know how to cook, you won't fail at cooking. It is like this.

What's more, love never fails as long as you know exactly how to love. So love is our only hope. Because, if you know it right, love is what never fails above other conditions.

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Don't think that you have failed even though you have loved with all your hard work. That is, don't say that your efforts are the problem. No matter how hard you try to dig a well where there was no water in the first place, you can't get any water. To get water, before trying, you must first understand what water is and where it is located.

Honey, what is love?

Will give Giving is the key to love.

Of course, according to this seemingly obvious statement, you may say that you have failed in love even though you have given many things to others, and you may be joking about the impudence and futility of these seemingly silly words.

You have clearly become a giver to others by following these words. I thought that if I became a giver, I could get love.

So you try to improve your skills. Because it is hoped that if you are able, you will be able to give more, and then you will be able to win love more effectively. However, in this way, you eventually find yourself reaching the limit of not being able to give more than you can afford to others, and you blame yourself for not being able to give more.

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Because of that, you even try to win love by targeting someone who is worse than you. To the poor, it seems that you, who are relatively better off, can give competently without trying hard. The poor are because they seem grateful and satisfied even though they are given a little.

To get love, you have to give. This structure keeps pushing you. If your partner likes something, you think that you should give it to them. He imposes such an obligation on himself.

As a result, you who are faced with limitations that cannot be immediately given in reality, and you who are tired of the heavy task of satisfying others, are now turning your opponent into a bad person. You come to see others as stupid criminals who demand what you can’t give. So, in the end, you become cold to them, criticize them, and run away from them. You become angry with your opponent.