Club5050 || Writing : How to know someone's real character // By samsol003

There are several ways that can be used to get to know a person's character better.

The first is getting to know how he interacts with his family members. As he behaves towards those closest to him, he will also behave towards others outside his immediate circle. if a man is kind to his mother and sister, he will behave the same way to other women. If a woman is kind to her father and brother, she will have a similar pattern to other men.

if he is not able to do good to those closest to him, who is the other person who deserves to get good deeds from him? He doesn't trust people closest to him, let alone people who are far from him.

The second is to see him in a depressed state. we will know the nature of a person when he is in a tight condition. Whether it's stuck with assignments, doing office matters that are approaching a deadline, or being in a difficult situation. when he is "sakau", usually someone will depend on something or use a method he usually uses to "survive". Here, one's character will also be exposed.

disconnect food, wifi and entertainment devices and you will see the true character of a man. Disconnect the channel of money, comfort, and Korean drama, then you will see the true nature of a woman. Unplug that comfort supply, and its true form will appear on the surface.

Lastly, give him power. If you want to know more about someone, yes indeed we can know him when he is with the closest person or when he is under pressure. however, usually a human will really show the true or hidden nature of him when he is sitting on the throne of power.

He is free and does feel free, that's where he will reveal who he really is. when a human being is no longer bound by limitations, usually by the freedom he has gained as an access, he will open the door to his true nature.

Thus said Abraham Lincoln :

"if you want to test a man's character, give him power".

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@belenguerra & @fendit