Self-knowledge is important in life. You point out two different occasions in which you thought that you should standout than others. Obviously, all the people in the world are not just as we thought. But the interesting thing is that time passes and we gradually learn to handle such situations. At the end, to penn about your desired partner. Obviously, most of us live a superficial life, but at the same time, there are many who have genuine goodness in their heart. So sooner or later you will find her.