[Article] Common Misundertandings About HATE. Hate Is NOT Wrong - It Is Only A Valid Response Of Extreme Dislike.
There are many on earth at this timing who believe and preach that 'hate is bad', 'hate causes our problems' and 'hate must end'. This is not a true awareness of hate.
Hate is only extreme dislike. If someone were to stamp on your toes with strength, every time you stood up - for a month - you would very likely extremely dislike that this has occurred. That extreme dislike is hate.
There is nothing wrong with hate.
The change that is needed in order for balance and comfort to be experienced is that the object of the hate needs to change in some way AND/OR some form of emotional expression/movement is needed on the part of the one that hates. The form of the movement/change/evolution in 'the hater' may be to simply move away from that which is hated. There is no need to try to force a dis-honest calm or reprogram your thoughts to attempt to artificially accept what is hated. Some things on earth are purely evil and to accept them is not an act of honesty or integrity.
If you deny your true feelings and deny that you truly feel hatred then you are denying yourself and you are injuring yourself emotionally. In fact, denying your own hatred IS AN ACT OF SELF-HATRED, since to deny how you truly feel and have felt is unloving and un-compassionate towards you. If you do this and you also deny that you are hating yourself too - then you are doubly harming yourself and are really setting yourself up to lose power and to lose touch with your real emotions. Any form of emotional self denial will result in a numbing and both loss of vibrational power and loss of self awareness. It can be understood, then, that by holding the judgements against hate that denigrate and devalue hate as 'wrong', individuals limit their own ability to realise their error and thus set themselves up to push their beliefs all the more on others and that is the root of so many of Earth's spiritual problems at present.
Be aware, those that pressure and judge us and our true feelings to deny our reality are the real threat and danger to wellbeing - though there is no need to judge them, blame them, attack them or scorn them; they are usually unconscious of the full depth of the situation. By accepting, firstly, that we do indeed hate some things in life, we are beginning a more honest and balanced path which will allow us to truly feel better, without any need for any kind of control or forced calm as we sit like a stone buddha in meditation while feeling terrible and never quite understanding why that peace we preach about is so elusive for those we preach to who still feel real emotions - while we ourselves are numbed and riding high on a kind of false spiritual wave that ultimately leads nowhere but dysfunction, error and death.
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Really good article. We are conditioned to hate anything that the MSM or Gov't gives us approval to hate eg terrorism. If they tell us that it is ok to hate 'x' - then it's ok to hate 'x'. You may even be praised for this type of hate.
Anything that they don't give us approval to hate may be labelled as hate speech and deemed socially unacceptable.
When you step outside of the boundaries that they have created for us you can expect to marginalized, attacked and of course, hated.
Well said, yes - emotions are the primary topic we need to learn and understand now if we are to be truly balanced and free. It is clear that the social engineers and control freaks are well versed in manipulating and controlling emotions and yet this is a useful reflection for us since we can notice them and look for how they may be reflecting back to us the patterns that we are also involved with in regards to our own internal manipulation and control of our own emotions.
Do you mean how we choose to react?
The social engineers are many steps ahead of us, even guys like us that are largely awake.
Unfortunately, most people don't even realize that that their thoughts, responses and beliefs are largely created and framed for them by hidden sources.
I have been fortunate to receive guidance from spirit regarding emotional mechanics and how to work with them to create health and balance. I recommend the books at http://www.rightuseofwill.com/books
in actuality, those who work with these books are ahead of the social engineers in terms of their understandings of what is involved here.
Thank you for your post.
Feelings crime is even less provable, and less enforceable than thought crime, ala George Orwell. Feelings are also involuntary. One might as well outlaw the involuntary muscle contractions of the heart.
It is said, by some, that even God hates evil. I don't know about God, but I hate evil. Is that a hate crime yet?
You are welcome, thanks for your comment!
Yes, emotional injuries have to be felt to be understood and thus since the judiciary typically completely removes emotion from their process, the 'court system' and emotions are somewhat in opposition. That said, in Britain I was surprised to find that Emotional Harassment is a 'crime' with a few months imprisonment as the 'solution'! In reality all imprisonment does is add insult to injury, but in some cases it may be needed to prevent further harm.
My understanding of 'the essence that creates worlds' AKA 'God' is that God does pretty much hate evil, but has had to take responsibility for it's creation just like everything else!
To deny hate is to deny a normal part of being human.
Exactly, yes - yet many are seeking to do exactly that, thinking that they will become more than human by returning to their spiritual origins.. However, that will only result in them losing part of who they are - their emotional part - which we all need to be whole beings.
recognizing emotions is very important, and suppressing or denying them can't be healthy. however emotions are still merely indicators, not always to be taken at face value and rarely to get attached to. i'd like to add 2 concepts here; 1) that emotional consciousness is extremely important. not only must we be aware of emotions but also able to exert energetic control. and 2) emotions we experience are of a certain "frequency". actual hatred is quite low on an energetic scale, so without the awareness noted above, repeated exposure to such a low level emotion has potential to be harmful. great post, thanks!
thanks for your comments and thoughts here. control is itself another entirely misunderstood concept that requires another post to be explained in depth. control requires the controller and the controlled.. and yet, emotions are part of us - they are our own energy moving - so to seek to control them is to create a futile and dysfunctional game of 'cat and mouse' where both the cat and the mouse are us!
the idea of attributing 'high and low' to frequencies of emotion is one that has no scientific foundation as far as I am aware. in a physics sense, the frequency of vibrations that are high frequency and low frequency has no equality with 'good' or 'bad' - for example, a high frequency sound is not 'good' and a bass sound is not 'bad'.
It is true that in an absolute sense a perfectly balanced and healthy reality will not include hate but that is only because everything that is hated will cease to exist for the experiencers involved and/or the beliefs involved in the creation of the hate will be released.
I write quite regularly on these topics and have worked with many people over 15 years with regards to emotional healing - you might find something relevant in this post on the topic to further explain my understandings: https://steemit.com/emotions/@ura-soul/there-are-no-garbage-emotions-all-emotions-are-needed-and-need-to-be-felt-to-be-known
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